IDEAS/FEE'S

[ACLOR]

GETTING STARTED WITH ALL THE FEE'S UPFRONT TO BOOK A DATE IS A HASSLE ANY IDEA'S ANYONE???

[germaine]

Basically, you do need the place most importantly. It does suck, but the fact is that there are more than one caterer, photographer, dj,etc. If you really like one business alot, book it. The others may have to wait and just keep a couple of backups until you have the money. Some should be more understanding, right. I booked the place first and put a deposit on my dress. On my prioroty list, the entertainment is next and I am thinking of registering for the honeymoon. Potluck takes care of catering and disposables and a relative with a VERY nice ***era, takes care of photography. Did I miss anything?

[Sarah]

Shop around! Don't be fooled by advertising! Read all the fine print! Ask VERY specific questions! Get price comparisons and negotiate! Always get receipts! Most important of all, SIGN A WRITTEN CONTRACT with ALL of your service providers that includes every last detail. This is your insurance in case anything goes wrong. If you fail to do this, you are most likely out of luck in case of a dispute, like if what you thought you ordered was not what you got. How much you spend on everything and when you book it obviously depends on your priorities. Go to the library and find books on wedding planning. There is an amazing amount of consumer info out there to save you from getting ripped off like so many brides who don't do their homework. Be aware that different companies and different services charge different amounts to reserve the date, from $25 to 50% of your total bill. Good luck!