SHOULD EVERY BODY BE INVITED TO OUR WEDDING

[ADRIAN]

I REALLY DON'T WANT TO INVITE EVERY BODY TO ME AND TONY'S WEDDING BECAUSE OUR FRIENDS ACT LIKE THEY A MENTAL PROBLEM AND NEED A WHOLE LOT OF HELP.THE ONY KIND OF WEDDING I THINK THAT WOULD MAKE TONY HAPY AND MAKE ME HAPPY IS TO INVITE CERTAIN PEOPLE THAT I KNOW THAT WILL NOT ACT LIKE A (JERK) SOME THING BECAUSE TONY AND I DO NOT NEED A HEADACE WRIGHT KNOW BECAUSE WE ARE TRYING TO FINISH MAKING OUR WEDDING PLANS AND THEN SIT BACK AND WAIT FOR THE BIG DAY TO COME. BUT THERE IS A FEW PEOPLE THAT I DON'T WOANT TO COME AND I AM GOING TO CHANGE THE INVITE TO THE WEDDING LIST REALLY FAST. MOST OF THEM ACT REALLY STUPID AND TRASHY TO ME AND I AM NOT GOING FOR IT/

[p_h_c]

If they're acting like that are they really friends? If you don't want them at your wedding you don't have to invite them. It is your wedding not theirs. It's ok to say no. Plus, fewer people is less expensive for you and your fiance. Make it a really nice intimate wedding rather than a large blown out affair. You both might be happier with that choice.

[Angeltee4u]

I know what you are going throu. I'm getting married April 17th and doing all the planning myself and for the 2nd time and the last time so I wanted to do it right this time and have all my family friends there. and I have started making out my wedding invitation list which I will begin sending out mid-October and most of my family is being a bunch of retards and getting mad at me for no reason and among other things so I just assume not have those family members there if all they are gonna cause is trouble for me so I have already decided I am not gonna waste my time on sending them an invite. That's just like one of my brother's that I was gonna have give me away, me and my soon to be hubby was staying with him and his g'f or whatever you wanna call her, his shacking up partner, and I was watching and babysitting there 3 kids while my brother went off to work and she went and done what she pleased plus with there 3 kids there and my 2 there half the time, and they would go out and do whatever at whatever time and left me there to babysit while they had there fun. and and I would take my turn at cooking and whatever there was to be done, but when we decided to move out they got all ****ed and started telling other family members we never helped them with anything in the house or whatever so I said the hell with them and Needless to say They won't be getting an invite to my wedding cause I don't need no backstabbing family members messing up my day. I ain't got time for it. Specially after all that I have done for them and while my brother's g'f laid up on her ass on the computer all day or run out to meet another guy while my brother was at work, and then they have the nerve to call me names and other stuff. Nope that's just not gonna float in my boat, not now, not ever.... and the bad think about it, I was only allow a few mins on the computer and the computer belongs to me...needless to say when I left a week or 2 ago my computer was the first thing that ***e outta that house and they got ****ed cause I took it but I am sorry it is mine. If they would have paid for there's like they was suppose to then they would still have one... I don't need trouble like that at my wedding.. That's all I gotta say..

Teresa

[kanaelili]

Well, well, well...My boyfriend and I have a similar dilema. I recently met some of his half brothers. They are the most ghetto people I have met. When he told me he wanted to invite thme to the wedding still my mouth dropped. That night his brothers got so drunk they were throwing up on themselves. Since he wants them at the wedding he is asking his other sister to help them find appropriate clothes and we will not be serving alcohol. If you have people you would like to be there but are worried about their behavior have a close friend or family member kind of help them get a clue before the wedding roles around.

[summerbride]

Oh, my goodness! I thought I was the only one who had this problem of who to invite. I have really ghetto family members too. My Mom has already started trying to tell me who is doing what, I stopped her right from the beginning.
But, I am also having the problem of who to invite from work. A lot of my coworks are very excited about the wedding. We are planning a small wedding (less then 100 people) so if I invite one person, I have to invite the other. You know what I mean? I work in a doctor's office, so I would also need to invite the doc's too. :rolleyes:

[bjmy1975]

Sometimes you just gotta have some faith that people will behave. Trust me.... I have to have a ton of Faith because the Best Man ranks as the top of my jerk list. And my family isn't the nicest or the richest, but they will still be invited. And I just trust that the parole officer will control those that I am worried about. ;)

As for inviting people from work. We work with like 350+people. We don't know all of them, but I have been there for six+years and know a lot of them. So far our guest list is at 160 and that doesn't include most of the groom's family. We were planning on 200 to 250 for a final count. We've talked about whom to invite from work, and since most of them won't be able to get off anyway, we just invited the people that we know the best. And then I've decided not to tell people other than those that will be invited about too much of the wedding plans. I figure if they don't know much, they won't feel too offended when they aren't invited. I know that there will still be people who think that they should have been invited, but I don't care. In my opinion they are just in for some free food and free booze. And I don't want those kind of people there..... other than the best man..... :rolleyes:

[reecey]

Just remember, its your day. You can invite whomever you want. I thought of my own situation with my family - my sisters do not get along with my stepmother's family, but I do - I'm inviting them. My great uncle and his kids have been ostricised from the family due to the fact that my uncle announced he is gay. I'm the only person in the family that still associates with them as they are my family, always have been, always will be. My cousins are my friends as well. They will be invited. If anyone doesn't like it, they don't have to show up. I've been dealing with this for a long time in my family though, so I'm used to it, I'm stubborn and I'm right :)



I REALLY DON'T WANT TO INVITE EVERY BODY TO ME AND TONY'S WEDDING BECAUSE OUR FRIENDS ACT LIKE THEY A MENTAL PROBLEM AND NEED A WHOLE LOT OF HELP.THE ONY KIND OF WEDDING I THINK THAT WOULD MAKE TONY HAPY AND MAKE ME HAPPY IS TO INVITE CERTAIN PEOPLE THAT I KNOW THAT WILL NOT ACT LIKE A (JERK) SOME THING BECAUSE TONY AND I DO NOT NEED A HEADACE WRIGHT KNOW BECAUSE WE ARE TRYING TO FINISH MAKING OUR WEDDING PLANS AND THEN SIT BACK AND WAIT FOR THE BIG DAY TO COME. BUT THERE IS A FEW PEOPLE THAT I DON'T WOANT TO COME AND I AM GOING TO CHANGE THE INVITE TO THE WEDDING LIST REALLY FAST. MOST OF THEM ACT REALLY STUPID AND TRASHY TO ME AND I AM NOT GOING FOR IT/