germaine
03-16-2004, 01:45 AM
What? Like they need something else to disagree about, even if her fiacee did go with it. Also, it will not "prove" anything. There should not have to be a choice between the two, but they should not be shoved into getting along. Obviously, they can remain friends without it being a choice, but her man needs to be put ahead of this friend and the friend should understand, just as her parents and other friends should understand that she will not be as available. That is why marriage is a big deal. Spouse is first. Even the father has to "GIVE HER AWAY".