Asking people to be respectful during wedding

[dear2mhart]

The summer before last, my fiance and I attended a wedding where the adults were louder than the children during the actual ceremony. Since a lot of the same people will be attending wedding, I would like some suggestions on how to address this problem before the wedding itself.

Thanks,
Kathy

[jennybean420]

A really good Idea for that is to have wedding programs and write a small request of quietness during the ceremony in bold ink on the program, and if your having cerimonial music state that as the reason for the upmost quietness. So you could say.......Due to the ceremony of lighting the unity candle and the light music being played please remain as quiet as possible during the ceremony as not to disrupt the importance of the ceremony. thankyou so and so this will remind them to not be so loud for it and if its mentioned as one thing youll bet they will be quieter for the rest of the ceremony....though you do have your loud ones no matter what so goodluck