dress

[Vixen]

i just want to vent, first of all i like all kinds of different dresses like this one:
http://www.davincibridal.com/images/8049FM.jpghttp://www.davincibridal.com/images/8049BL.jpg

and what i dont like anymore (which i am selling):

picture here (http://groups.msn.com/_Secure/0VADvAvEaOaQPifBPoW8xMqHwh8wOMR6X2XXx4HdJ4IMQz86AP TIvpeYdrZIlfkEAiQLIiJpuFjZnhPJRqh5bX*hg5fVADGl4*jC ikOBK9vlgf7cHZdy6Vj1BbcC5ASgx/dress.jpg?dc=4675535833387254855url)
and
pic again (http://groups.msn.com/_Secure/0VQDvAiMbGrZcy7JUaXnQJpCTOwWRfCYG6lnVJbsLZSXiFfin9 kOd7a1rlmxgziS2t*77t9lvoCjRfUxtOj!g1mC5M0HZ!bWlchs *W7UcCxbxDPHFU4PBpjud9tKftNl9/dress2.jpg?dc=4675535833390861037url)
and
another one (http://groups.msn.com/_Secure/0VQAAACQbaLbAFxOmJ*DN5paOr0TaGdexfrWtapS*ixKDx2CZz 4PFCgMqdFnApiZrlSvUcHqKpWJuinqm!p7B6dZ4ZGIwDH4RLcH enA3UFKNASArnPIkshG8EQ4hFrNSo/dress3.jpg?dc=4675535833392551982url)

i havnt decided on how much since there is a stain (which should be able to clean) from my mothers friend who let her daughter try it on.

but i just wanted to show everyone why i cant stand for my mother to go with me as you can see my taste has changed so much. She still wants me to wear the first dress, and i dont think its appropriate either to wear the same dress for another guy either ahhhhhh!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!11

[Cashy98]

Whoa... what happened???? I'm confused. :confused: :confused: :confused:

[Vixen]

my mom is just being a brat thats all. See i made a post on another thread about how the dress i am getting rid of is just not what i want anymore, so we were/are going to sell this other one. Well she had a big ol fit about how much she speant for it and how im never going to get married. Anyway i tried to tell her i dont want this dress cause is not me anymore. She even made me try it on to see if it still fit (glad my ****s got bigger) then she got all huffy. anyway i tried to tell her what i want and what my current style is and she wouldnt have any of it. Once again when and if i do get married, i will be planning all by myself so i wont have to deal with this S***.

sorry for the run on sentance im just erked how she treats me and doesnt care what i think or feel.

ps she let someone else try it on to let them wear it without asking me first. And was going to let her borrow the dress. without my permission!!! besides the fact i dont want it anymore and it dosnt fit, its stil mine. she might have paid for it with her money but i have paid it back in emotion and pain.

[Cashy98]

LOL! Your mom sounds just like mine! Not that its funny though, its REALLY not! My mom has been huffy with me about my dress too. You see I had an idea that I wanted a dress with the pretty, flowy sleeves on it. Kinda like this one:
http://a1000.g.akamaitech.net/f/1000/806/12h/images.theknot.com/GownDesigners/eden/edenf032141m.jpg
Now don't get me wrong. It's a pretty dress and all... but I didn't find it very flattering on my tall body (with my wide shoulders). I just decided that this dress was not for me. So I moved on... liking various other dresses, but I finally settled on the fact that the dress would need to be strapless (so not what I originally wanted) and it would need to be light weight (outdoor wedding... June... need I say more?). Well my mom got into such a huff about it, saying I'm too difficult and that I can't make up my mind. And then she said she didn't want to help me with my wedding anymore. Sheesh! Just because my idea of what kind of dress I should wear changed? What's her problem. It's not HER wedding. :rolleyes: So, yeah, there's my story.
So anyway, I'm sorry your mom let someone else try on your dress. That was pretty rude of her. I'd kill my mom is she did something like that! I would just hurry up and sell the dress... that way she can't try to force you to try it on again! :p

[Kelly1Mickey]

Since your mom won't have any say in your wedding plans, just let her comments roll off your back. The new dress you picked is absolutely beautiful! Your mom should realize that fashions have changed in the 14 years since you bought that first dress. And I agree with you...new guy, new dress!

[eca1027]

I agree with Kelley1Mickey! You should definitely have a new dress for a new guy! Your mom just sounds like she's just worried about the money, and is not really thinking about anything else!

[carmela]

I am having the same with my mom. She is old school Italian and was expecting me to have this big beaded dress (similar to your link.) and I want something plain and simple. So I know how you are feeling. But to have another woman try on your dress. That is completly wrong and I agree, you can't wear the same dress yu wore for another man.

[Vixen]

im going to have a harder time selling it all in itself since its old and out of style. That and its a size 3. lol. Im a 5 now but my chest is bigger than way back when couldnt get it over my ****s! lmao. i might just take it apart and make a blanket for my daughter.