Amanda and Travis, Love at long last.

[Phoenix]

Aug 25 2007.....this is the day my dream comes true. This is the date my fiance and I have set to gt married. This is our journal of how we met and the trials and tribulations that lead us to this day. It will be updated as often as I can remember to.

March 24, 2005
Today is the day I finally meet Travis after talking to him online and on the phone for weeks. I cant wait, im nervous and excited all in one. He is picking me up at my work placement and we are going to my place then to talk and get to know each other. Travis first emailed me cause he thought we had alot in comon and we realy do, i knew within a few times of talking to him that he was the man i was going to marry. So he picked me up from work today with a dozen red roses *how sweet* and we talked the night away. we made it official that we were dating around 4am on the 25. The only thing that made this bad was having to leave the day of the 25 to go to my parents for easter.

March 25, 2005
Today I woke up in his arms and knew i was in love. He took me to the bus stop and it was the hardest thing ever to have to leave him to go home. I made it though had a weekend at home and got back to his house and just about never left.

A few weeks later
Our one month aniversary, we made dinner together and celebrated our aniversary. We have swapped i love you's and said that we dont know where the other would be without each other. The night went well and again i fell asleep with the man of my dreams.

One month later,
Our two month aniversary, well today we swapped gifts and i told him i wanted to be with him forever, actaually i asked him to marry me, and he said yes. *L* Ive never been a conformist, but i couldnt be happier that he said yes. I got a promise ring from him that i love, and wear with pride. I cant wait to get a diamond from him to show off to the world.

Weeks later,
We have discussed my moving in with him and decided its a good idea, we also went to People's Jewlers and looked at some rings. ;) We picked out one that i liked and that was reasonably priced for us, we went back a few days later to buy and and get it sized. Our three month aniversary passed without much hoopla, i had gone to my parents house for that weekend and he stayed up at home. However when i got back, on the 26th, we made up for the time apart, and talked alot as we had been fighting recently, never anything serious but just general disagreements. On june 30th, 2005 he made me the happiest girl alive, we picked up the ring and he got down on his knees and asked me to marry him. I cried and cried and of course said yes.
We decided a wedding date, and are now putting things on hold and just enjoying the feeling of knowing we will be together forever.

July 03, 2005
Today Travis and I discussed our budget and it seems that he thinks we can have the wedding of my dreams on a 5k budget, and i have big dreams. Any advice on this would be great, in fact any words from anyone is always apreciated.

July 05, 2005
Yesterday was a big day for us, i picked out my wedding dress, *ebay for under 300* and found a great cheap way to do bouquets and flowers for the flower girl. We could possibly get all our flowers done for under 100.00 all silk flowers on ebay! Does anyone think its to soon to buy a wedding dress? I dont want to loose it.

[reecey]

a wedding on a budget of 5K is totally doable. Let us know what you're thinking - everything you want, and we'll help you squeeze it all into that budget! :)

[kg4eoh]

I'm on a $5000 budget too, so I know it is totally doable. Just know that you need to decide up front what you are willing to compromise on and what you have to have a certain way. For instance, I am willing to compromise on flowers. I like them, but they are not something I am willing to pay hundreds of dollars for. Photography on the other hand is not something I am willing to compromise on what I want even if it cost a bit more.

[Phoenix]

Well ladies our budget is comming along well. I have all my flowers done for 100 dollars, i think i am getting my hair and make-up done for free, my pictures are being done by a friend for next to nothing, so things are comming along nicely! Still dress hunting I think that will take some time and money, as my parents have offered to help pay for a reception! :D It finally going as planned!

[blushing_bride_2be]

Welcome to the boards and the proposal was adorable. Ebay is pretty good about dresses isn't it. It's where I bought mine and was totally satisfied. If you need anything don't be afraid to ask! Good luck and congrats!

[Phoenix]

Thanks, I have looked at ebay a few times, but i think i want the experiance of trying on dresses, and what not. lol. But if i cant find anything i would likely go with ebay. My only concern with that, is what if I cant find a tailor to work with me, and take it in and what not?

[DNM1010]

awe ure story is so sweet! its nice to have a soul mate isnt it... you should move up the date more!!! how about march 10 2006!!!!

[Phoenix]

Just wanted everyone to know we have changed the date to March 10 2007! I hope we keep moving it up, i just want to get married and start our lives together!

[StephandMike06]

I know what you mean about wanting to move the date up :). We only have a 10 month engagement but I want to get married now, I don't know if I could wait that long!! Congrats!!

Also $5,000 is totally doable (like everyone else said), I think the most important thing though is to realize you might have to make adjustments to what your "ideal" wedding is. We set ourselves on a budget too because we are paying for it all by ourselves, but someone said to me "in the end you will be just as married as the person who spent $25,000+ on a wedding", that made so much sense to me and really put into perspective what the day was supposed to be all about. We're doing a lot of DIY stuff for the wedding and it has saved us a ton. Shop around see what's out there and jump on good deals :)

[ca_dawson]

Congrats on your new date! Sounds like everything is coming along nicely and in budget! I just did my bridesmaid flowers, all 6 bouquets for under $60! Ebay is wonderful too! Good luck in your planning!

[blushing_bride_2be]

Congrats on moving the date up! Everything is going good as far as planning wise. I'm excited to see what else you post!

[Phoenix]

Thanks! :D I am super excited. We also let the cat out of the bag and told my parents, *both of them*, lol we were so worried about my dad and how he would react, lol he toasted us, congradulated us, and gave us his blessing. Im so happy its over and done with.:D Thanks for all your support!!!
Love you all!

[blushing_bride_2be]

Thanks! :D I am super excited. We also let the cat out of the bag and told my parents, *both of them*, lol we were so worried about my dad and how he would react, lol he toasted us, congradulated us, and gave us his blessing. Im so happy its over and done with.:D Thanks for all your support!!!
Love you all!

Your welcome girl. That's so great! Yay!

[Phoenix]

Thanks ladies, I dont thing I am allowed to move the date up again! lol I dont think I could handle moving it up again, lol I like having all this time to get things done!

[Phoenix]

I just re-did my flowers, I was so inspired by a picture of someone elses and the way they wrapped them that I had to re-do my own. What do you ladies think?
http://i20.photobucket.com/albums/b223/Canadorephoenix/DSCF0399.jpg

[Phoenix]

I definatly just want mine to be perfect! lol Its a blurry pic but you can sort of get the idea. lol I was so impressed with the way the turned out, and they arent done yet! lol Oh and Travis wants me to let everyone know he did my bouquet, the bigger one in the pic! He is very proud!

[Phoenix]

Thought I would post our website as well. :D I am very proud of it, and I am always working on it! lol Any ideas are greatly appreciated!
http://travisandamandaswedding.weddingannouncer.com/

[Phoenix]

Here is a pic of my ring! I am so madly in love wth it! lol

http://i20.photobucket.com/albums/b223/Canadorephoenix/DSCF0404.jpg

[ca_dawson]

I just re-did my flowers, I was so inspired by a picture of someone elses and the way they wrapped them that I had to re-do my own. What do you ladies think?
http://i20.photobucket.com/albums/b223/Canadorephoenix/DSCF0399.jpg
Love it! They are beautiful! I'm always "tweeking" my flowers! Haha! I guess I just want them to be beautiful!

[Kelly1Mickey]

Thought I would post our website as well. :D I am very proud of it, and I am always working on it! lol Any ideas are greatly appreciated!
http://travisandamandaswedding.weddingannouncer.com/
That has to be one of the most thorough websites I have seen a bride and groom do! Great job!

[Phoenix]

That has to be one of the most thorough websites I have seen a bride and groom do! Great job!
Thanks!

[blushing_bride_2be]

Your ring is sooo beautiful. I love the flowers and think they will be stunning at the wedding. I love love love everything girl. Keep up the great work girl!

[Phoenix]

Well last night we had friends from Barrie up to visit and I was kind of concerned about how this would go over. Travis is not really social and doesnt really have the best social skills. He made me proud though, he treated them like a true gracious host and was wonderfull to them all night. LOL however once behind closed doors he was no longer a gentleman and I had to remind him that we had company in the next room!!! lol Im glad it went well though. lol It makes me so happy to see him getting along well with my friends! I love him!

[Phoenix]

I dont know why i didnt post this when it happened but I was just thinking about it now. I dont know how many of you remember how nervous I was to tell my parents and his parents. Well Everyone is aware of the engagement and happy to ok with it. lol, When we Traveled to his mothers home for thanksgiving we told her about it and she was happy about it. She gave me a big hug and welcomed me to the family! lol i was scared. My mom already knew so she was no problem, dad was the big one to fear! We went to my parents house for my birthday and told him the night of my birthday and eh toasted us, congradulated us, and gave us his blessing! :D:D i was so happy!!! We got a beautifull engagment card and everything went well! :D Now he is comming home withe me for christmas and gets to meet the rest of my family!! lol He is kind of nervous but looking forward to it. Dad is having some troubles comming to terms with things i think. daddy's little girl complex?? lol Anyone else have this with their dads??

[blushing_bride_2be]

I dont know why i didnt post this when it happened but I was just thinking about it now. I dont know how many of you remember how nervous I was to tell my parents and his parents. Well Everyone is aware of the engagement and happy to ok with it. lol, When we Traveled to his mothers home for thanksgiving we told her about it and she was happy about it. She gave me a big hug and welcomed me to the family! lol i was scared. My mom already knew so she was no problem, dad was the big one to fear! We went to my parents house for my birthday and told him the night of my birthday and eh toasted us, congradulated us, and gave us his blessing! :D:D i was so happy!!! We got a beautifull engagment card and everything went well! :D Now he is comming home withe me for christmas and gets to meet the rest of my family!! lol He is kind of nervous but looking forward to it. Dad is having some troubles comming to terms with things i think. daddy's little girl complex?? lol Anyone else have this with their dads??

I do but it seems now that he realizes how happy I am goign to be and how happy I currently am he has backed off some. I am his baby girl and the last one to be married so I can understand. My mom is a different story though. She doesn't want me to get married or move away for some reason. His parents are cool with it but why can't my mom lighten up!

[Phoenix]

My mom loves Travis, she thinks its a great idea, and is very happy to have me "married off" to someone like him! lol

[Phoenix]

Amazing news!!!!!!!!!! As it turns out at the beggining of the year I applied for some bursaries. I never get them but I always apply for them. This year was no different so I totally was not expecting anything when I went to check the board. Low and behold I GOT A BURSARY!!!! $700.00 worth!!!!! I was so excited. I went shopping last night and got some christmas stuff, stocking stuffers for Travis, and what not! :D:D I am so happy about it. The best part of it all is, I dont have to pay any of it back!!!! $700.00 worth of free money!!! YAY!!!!!!

[blushing_bride_2be]

Amazing news!!!!!!!!!! As it turns out at the beggining of the year I applied for some bursaries. I never get them but I always apply for them. This year was no different so I totally was not expecting anything when I went to check the board. Low and behold I GOT A BURSARY!!!! $700.00 worth!!!!! I was so excited. I went shopping last night and got some christmas stuff, stocking stuffers for Travis, and what not! :D:D I am so happy about it. The best part of it all is, I dont have to pay any of it back!!!! $700.00 worth of free money!!! YAY!!!!!!

Congrats and lucky dawg! I wish I could get free money! What's a BURSARY? I must be in the shadows about alot of stuff. What is it girl? Glad you had fun shopping!

[Phoenix]

Its like a grant given out by the school i go to to award good work! :D

[blushing_bride_2be]

Well once again congrats!

[Phoenix]

Thanks! :D

[blushing_bride_2be]

Your very welcome girl!

[Phoenix]

Well we have decided upon a theme. Winter wonderland!! :D Im so excited and I can start my decoration shopping after christmas. YAY Sales!!!!!! I have only one problem, I have no idea what to look for! Any sugestions would be greatly appreciated, not only for decorations but cakes and dresses as well. Thanks ladies!

[blushing_bride_2be]

I found some stuff for you girl. I hope you don't mind! Here ya go girl!

Here's a link for centerpieces for you for christmas! I know it's not a christmas theme but they have snowflake ideas too. Here ya go!

http://www.surroundings.com/order.cgi?cart_id=%%cart_id%%&page=christmaskits.html

http://i12.photobucket.com/albums/a215/blushing_bride_2be/snowflake2.jpg

http://i12.photobucket.com/albums/a215/blushing_bride_2be/cake-snowflake.jpg

http://i12.photobucket.com/albums/a215/blushing_bride_2be/snowflake1.jpg

http://i12.photobucket.com/albums/a215/blushing_bride_2be/Winter_3.jpg

http://i12.photobucket.com/albums/a215/blushing_bride_2be/redribbon.jpg

[Phoenix]

OMG OMG OMG I love love love those cakes!! :D Those centerpieces are fantastic to! :D What a great help. What would I do without you? Other then have no cake and no idea how to decorate! lol

[Phoenix]

I have been playing with the idea of having a decorated christmas tree in the back of the reception and having guests put thier gifts under it.

[Jen062406]

I have been playing with the idea of having a decorated christmas tree in the back of the reception and having guests put thier gifts under it.
That's an awesome idea. I can't wait to see pictures of your wedding..I love the winter theme. :)

[blushing_bride_2be]

I have been playing with the idea of having a decorated christmas tree in the back of the reception and having guests put thier gifts under it.

I love that idea and it will be really cute! I think you should go with it! It would make a great party decoration and plus excellent pictures!

[Phoenix]

Thanks Anastasia, I thought it would be cute to. I was worried it would look almost to christmassy though?

[blushing_bride_2be]

Thanks Anastasia, I thought it would be cute to. I was worried it would look almost to christmassy though?

Your welcome!

[Phoenix]

I was just looking to see who really reads my journal and comments, its always nice to see that you have something kind to say! Thanks hun for all your support!

[blushing_bride_2be]

I was just looking to see who really reads my journal and comments, its always nice to see that you have something kind to say! Thanks hun for all your support!

Your welcome hun. I love reading your journal along with the others. You always have great ideas and also are so very helpful!

[lyndsaynicole]

I have been playing with the idea of having a decorated christmas tree in the back of the reception and having guests put thier gifts under it.


That's a great idea! I think that would be so cute!

Thought you might be interested: There are some GREAT ornaments I've seen around lately. Target, Walmart, and Meijer all have these big sections of ornaments that range in price from like $.99 to $4.99 or so-in all different themes and colors (that's how they're sorted). Anyway, at Walmart in particular, I noticed they had a lot of like icicles and snowflakes and stuff like that-in like that sparkle-blue-silver-white kind of combinations. You might wanna look into that for some decorations and stuff-or even to decorate your tree that the presents are going under. Just a heads up ;)

[blushing_bride_2be]

I found these on ebay! They are supposed to look like snow! Not sure! Just thought I would post them!

http://cgi.ebay.com/WEDDING-SNOW-PACKETS-NEW-YOUR-PICTURES-WILL-BEAUTIFUL_W0QQitemZ8235079822QQcategoryZ1265QQrdZ1 QQcmdZViewItem

[Vanessa]

Amanda- I read your journal & checked out your website. It is really well done! I like the winter Wonderland theme, and the Christmas tree with gifts underneath. You could do the kind of blue/silver decorated tree, with white lights and snowflakes, to get away from the Christmas theme ???
Congratulations and happy planning!

[Phoenix]

Thanks ladies! I love your help! I honestly dont know where I would be without it! :D I wish you could all come to the wedding and see your ideas pay off!

[Phoenix]

I was thining something like these candles with some silver tinsel around the base. Also for the church decorations doing some white and silver branches bunched and tied to the end of the pew. What do you all think?

http://i20.photobucket.com/albums/b223/Canadorephoenix/candycanepillars.jpg

[Phoenix]

What do you ladies think of these dresses???
Maid on Honour Choice one:
http://i20.photobucket.com/albums/b223/Canadorephoenix/F05_8749_frenchblue.jpg
Maid of Honour Choice two:
http://i20.photobucket.com/albums/b223/Canadorephoenix/silverdrapeback.jpg
Bridesmaid Dress:
http://i20.photobucket.com/albums/b223/Canadorephoenix/Prodlarge620.jpg

[ca_dawson]

I love the first dress! Where did you find it? I have had quite the task trying to find halter top dresses for my girls!

[Phoenix]

I found it at Davids Bridal. My MOH will wear silver and my bridesmaids will wear red. My only problem is that we are all pretty top heavy girls! lol I dont want anyone falling out of thier dresses!

[Phoenix]

Well i finished my save the date cards. I have yet to get Travis's final nod of approval but I am sure he will love them as much as i do. Let me know what you girls think. I am always looking for sugestions. As well, when is the right time to send out save the dates, our wedding isnt untill march 10/07?

http://i20.photobucket.com/albums/b223/Canadorephoenix/savethedates.jpg

[Kelly1Mickey]

I really like them! My only suggestion is to adda comma between March 10 and 2007. From what I understand, they should be sent 6-9 months prior to the event. We sent ours out right around the 8 month mark.

[Phoenix]

Thank you so much! lol No i know when to send them out at least. Im glad you like them! I wish i could change the colors in them to have them be white, red and silver. *our colors* lol Maybe FH can figure it out. Thanks again!

[Kelly1Mickey]

Thank you so much! lol No i know when to send them out at least. Im glad you like them! I wish i could change the colors in them to have them be white, red and silver. *our colors* lol Maybe FH can figure it out. Thanks again!
My Save the Dates didn't match my colors either. I figured the Save the Dates was the one area we could stray from the colors and/or theme.

[Phoenix]

Oh good, I was thining it had to be all within the theme, lol I am not as computer literate as I would like so I would be afraid to play with it, and loose them! lol Thanks Kelly!

[blushing_bride_2be]

I love the save the dates. You two look so cute and happy in the picture. I am anxious to do mine. I can't wait!

[Phoenix]

Thanks ladies. I love the input i get from you guys!

[blushing_bride_2be]

And we love to give you the input!

[Phoenix]

:D good :D lol Its nice to be able to bore you laides with my wedding talk, cause lord knows my friends and family are done hearing about it!

[blushing_bride_2be]

We love to hear about it. Well I do and I am sure the other girls do to. Just keep the posts coming and you'll get plenty of input!

[Phoenix]

I think what we are going to do is is keep the colors and everything the same and just take the cerimony and change how its worked. I have some really great Irish wedding vows. Any help for finding a traditional celtic wedding cerimony would be greatly appreciated.

[Phoenix]

Ok I think these are going to be used as our vows. I love them!


"You cannon possess me for I belong to myself
But while we both wish it, I give you that which is mine to give
You cannon command me, for I am a free person
But I shall serve you in those ways you require
and the honeycomb will taste sweeter coming from my hand
"I pledge to you that yours will be the name I cry aloud in the night
and the eyes into which I smile in the morning
I pledge to you the first bite of my meat and the first drink from my cup
I pledge to you my living and my dying, each equally in your care
I shall be a shield for your back and you for mine
I shall not slander you, nor you me
I shall honor you above all others, and when we quarrel we shall do so in private and
tell no strangers our grievances
"This is my wedding vow to you.
This is the marriage of equals.

What do you guys think?

[Phoenix]

Handfasting can be part of the religious or civil wedding ceremony. The hands of the bride and groom are joined as in the familiar scene as the person officiating the ceremony asks "Who gives this woman to be wed?" and then takes her hand from her father or whoever is giving away the bride and clasps it to the hand of the groom. In olden days the priest or minister would wrap the clasped hands in the end of his stole to symbolize the trinity of marriage; man and woman joined by God. With God’s grace in time another trinity would be manifest; mother, father and child. The Celts have always been good at seeing things in threes. This symbolic binding together in marriage evolved into a the practice of wrapping the clasped hands with a cord or an embroidered cloth, usually made especially for that purpose. Handfasting in this manner is a legitimate part of a legally valid marriage. This is something I want to talk to my priest about. I think it would be a great way to incorperate the Irish heritage into our cerimony.

[Phoenix]

Here are some traditions I found and liked to, let me know if you can think of anymore?


• There is one wedding Irish tradition that states: 'Marry in May and Rue the Day' while another states: 'Marry in April if you can, joy for maiden and for man'.


• Lucky horseshoe. Irish brides used to carry a real horseshoe for good luck. (Turned up so the luck won't run out). You can get porcelain horseshoes which most Irish brides carry these days, or one made of fabric which is worn on the wrist

• Make-up bells. The chime of bells is thought to keep evil spirits away, restore harmony if a couple is fighting, and also remind a couple of their wedding vows. Giving a bell as a gift has become an Irish tradition. You could also have your greeters hand out tiny bells to your guests to ring as you process. (You might want to let them know when they're supposed to be rung - perhaps mention it in your program along with an explanation of the custom). Guests could also ring their little bells at the reception in lieu of clinking glasses.
• The bride does not wear new shoes lest the Fairies steal them away.
• It was unlucky to marry on a Saturday
• A man should always be the first to wish joy to the bride, never a woman
• The top tier of your wedding cake should be an Irish whiskey cake which is saved for the christening of your first baby. I've also heard of another custom which just ***e to my attention and will be
included in the next edition: a bottle of champagne is saved from the reception so that it can be used to 'wet the baby's head' at the Christening.
• Handfasting is a ceremony that some believe was practiced in remote areas where priests made infrequent circuit visits. There is some debate about whether the handfasting ceremony constituted a "real" and legal marriage, just without the benefit of clergy, or a "pre-marriage," or perhaps a public announcement of betrothal. Still others believe that it was a "trial marriage" that lasted a year and a day, after which time the couple could actually marry or part company. The "year and a day" is a time frame that was popularized in novels and purportedly was the period of time that a couple would have to be "married" before being granted the legal rights of marriage, such as inheriting land. There is little hard and fast resource material to support the "year and a day" concept, but as for handfasting, couples today practice it more as a neo-pagan, nonreligious alternative that an alternative religious ceremony.
• The Claddagh Ring has remained very popular as an engagement and/or wedding ring. The symbolism is quite lovely. The heart in the design symbolizes love longed to be shared with one's true love. The crown symbolizes undying loyalty and the hands symbolize friendship, which is, after all, the very foundation of love, with loyalty holding the two hands together. There are many legends about the origin of the Claddagh ring and true or not, the Claddagh has become an everlasting symbol of love and marriage
• The Horseshoe has long been a symbol of good luck in cross-cultures. Irish tradition has it that a horseshoe given as a wedding gift to the bride and groom and kept in their home will bring them good luck. The horseshoe must always be hung like the letter "U," so that the luck doesn't "drip out."
• Jumping the Broom is a custom known and practiced widely in the African-American community, where the broom serves as a symbol of hearth and home. The custom is also referenced both in Celtic and Irish wedding traditions and may have its roots in an ancient festival where women would "jump or ride a broom" to ensure the fertility of their crops
• As with most wedding, the cake is a focal point at an Irish weddings. Bakers can stay in theme by decorating cakes with shamrocks and green icing and, should the couple wish, an Irish cream filling (Irish Whiskey, whipped cream and sweetener) can be used

[Phoenix]

Just an update, I am going to be going to try on dresses on Saterday!!! I cant wait, I dont have the money to buy anything yet, but I can try them on and If I fall in love with one, I can put money on it in Jan. Wish me luck in finding something!

[Phoenix]

An Irish Wedding Blessing
You are the star of each night,
You are the brightness of every morning,
You are the story of each guest,
You are the report of every land.
No evil shall befall you, on hill nor bank,
In field or valley, on mountain or in glen.
Neither above, nor below, neither in sea,
Nor on shore, in skies above,
Nor in the depths.
You are the kernel of my heart,
You are the face of my sun,
You are the harp of my music,
You are the crown of my company.


Scottish Blessing of the Elements
Deep peace
of the running wave to you
Deep peace
of the flowing air to you
Deep peace
of the quiet earth to you
Deep peace
of the shining stars to you
Deep peace
of the spirit of peace to yo

[Phoenix]

http://i20.photobucket.com/albums/b223/Canadorephoenix/IvyRose.jpg
I saw this and thought it would be cute with shamrocks instead of ivy

[Phoenix]

The boys have agreed to wear kilts if I want them to, and they can change into pants for the reception. Here is the Wallace tartan.
http://i20.photobucket.com/albums/b223/Canadorephoenix/Wallace.jpg

[Phoenix]

More Irish traditions. This is to much fun to research, and its part of my heritage wich is great to!


THE CLADDAGH RING
Named after Claddagh, a fishing village in Galway (in Western Ireland), the Claddagh ring is handed down from mother to daughter and isused both as the betrothal and wedding ring. It is worn with the crowns facing inward, toward the wrist, on betrothal, and outward, toward the nail, upon marriage. Today, it is still used as a wedding ring and it is considered improper for a person to buy one for him or herself; it must be given as a gift.

STRANGE SUPERSTITIONS
In the 18th and 19th centuries, the Irish believed that if the sun shone on the bride, it would bring good luck to the couple. It was also lucky to hear a cuckoo on the wedding morning or to see three magpies. After the wedding ceremony, it was important that a man and not a woman be the first to wish joy to the new bride.

LOCKING THE DOOR
Since Irish men were known for getting cold feet on their wedding days, once the bride and groom were in the church, the guests would lock the door to keep the groom inside to make sure he went through with the ceremony.

IRISH TOAST
The wedding party gathers around the bride and groom. All fill their glasses with mead and the newly wedded couple recites an Irish toast: "Friends and relatives, so fond and dear, 'tis our greatest pleasure to have you here. When many years this day has passed, fondest memories will always last. So we drink a cup of Irish mead and ask God's blessing in your hour of need." The guests respond: "On this special day, our wish to you, the goodness of the old, the best of the new. God bless you both who drink this mead, may it always fill your every need." Need more toasting tips? Check out Irish Toasts.

IRISH LACE
While bridal fashions in Ireland resemble the rest of the Western world, one distinctly Irish touch is Irish lace. Try to incorporate this beautiful fabric into a gown or veil. If that's too expensive, consider carrying a lace handkerchief in your bridal bag or hand them out as attendant gifts. Color scheme? Follow Irish heritage, of course, and go for green, white, and gold.

BAGPIPES AND KILTS
Lots of big Irish families have family members who are in pipe bands. So it's not unusual for them to hook up at a wedding and pipe the couple into the mass or at dinner. Popular tunes are the "Highland Fling" and the "Stack of Barley," as well as jigs, reels, and hornpipes. Not only do they sound good, they look good too. Most pipers wear Celtic kilts -- plaid skirts that their ancestors wore in medieval times. The Irish weren't allowed to wear them during British rule, so now it seems they slip them on for practically every special occasion, maybe in an effort to make up for lost time and to reclaim their stake in what is often regarded as a Scottish fashion statement.

LORD OF THE DANCE
Show off on the dance floor with a ceilidh, a traditional Irish set dance. Consider signing up for pre-wedding lessons -- for just you and your sweetie or for the whole bridal party. Keep in mind that some ceilidh dances are named for locations in Ireland such as the Kerry Set, the Seige of Ennis, while some waltz tunes include names such as "Galway Shawl", or "Home to Mayo" -- choose a song or dance to reflect your family's heritage or ancestral home. Be sure to share the special significance of your dance with your guests.

AN IRISH FEAST
The traditional Irish menu -- Irish soda bread, corned beef, and cabbage -- is perhaps not something you'd typically crave, but when cooked right and served up at a big wedding fete, it's positively delicious (not to mention that it all gets washed down with plenty of whiskey and Guinness Stout). And don't forget the traditional Irish wedding cake, a fruitcake filled with almonds, raisins, cherries, and spice and laced with brandy or bourbon. Want to bake it yourself? Here's a recipe.

THE MONTH OF HONEY
The word for honey is "meala" in Irish. "Mi na meala," the month of honey, refers to the month after the wedding when the newlyweds celebrated by drinking mead, a brew made of fermented honey. Following the wedding, a sufficient amount of mead was given to the bride and groom, along with special goblets, so they could share the unique brew for one full moon after their wedding -- and thus the term honeymoon was coined. It was believed that this delicate yet potent drink was the best way to ensure a good beginning for a new marriage, and it was also believed to endow powers of virility and fertility.

[Phoenix]

1. Select a date for the wedding. The last day of the year is considered an especially lucky time for an Irish marriage.

2. Choose claddagh rings for your wedding bands. These traditional Irish rings, when worn on the ring finger of the left hand with the heart facing in, tell the world your heart is taken forever.

3. Hire a piper to play at your ceremony. Contact your local St. Patrick's Day Parade Committee for help in finding one.

4. Ask a child to present a satin horseshoe to the bride at the conclusion of the ceremony. This represents good luck. Insert the horseshoe open end up (so the luck won't run out) into the bridal bouquet.

5. Honor the person who introduced you to each other with a special toast at the wedding. This tradition stems from the days when a matchmaker had that role.

6. Serve a traditional Irish wedding cake, which is a fruit cake filled with almonds, raisins, cherries and spice, and laced with brandy or bourbon. You can order this or make it yourself.

7. Sign up for ceilidh (dance) lessons for the bride and bridal party prior to the wedding to learn some Irish dances to perform at the ceremony.

8. Hire a band that can play popular Irish songs, such as "The Irish Wedding Song," "Oh Danny Boy," "When Irish Eyes Are Smiling," and "My Favorite Irish Rose."

9. Include a song or dance that reflects your family's specific heritage.

10. Tie harvest knots out of straw and decorate them with small flowers or bells to give to guests as favors. Attach a scroll explaining the significance, which is that young Irish men traditionally gave these to their girls to show their devotion.

11. Suggest your florist weave tiny harvest knots into your bouquet.


Tips:
Save the horseshoe from the wedding as a family heirloom to pass on to your children.

Remember the Irish tradition that a sunny day is lucky, and a rainy one is not. Hope for sun on your wedding day!

[acraig]

Good luck in trying on your dress, if you get pics we want to see them!!!

[alley06]

Just an update, I am going to be going to try on dresses on Saterday!!! I cant wait, I dont have the money to buy anything yet, but I can try them on and If I fall in love with one, I can put money on it in Jan. Wish me luck in finding something!

Have fun trying on dresses. It doesn't matter if you don't have the money now, you can try dresses on at any time. Remeber to take your ***era, some stores allow you to take pictures. Try on lots of dresses!

[Phoenix]

Thanks girls, I am so excited, I will post pics tommorrow as soon as I can!

[Phoenix]

Well I spoke to my mom tonight, and she made some good points about the wedding. We arent in any rush to get married, we already live together, and we arent working at the moment so she said maybe its best to postpone the wedding. I dont like it, but I agree. So I think its back to its original date of Augaust 25 2007. Its only about five months, but hey, its five more months of planning i get, and its time to get some more money put aside. However the way this is going I might be a 2008 bride!

[Phoenix]

Ok ladies, here it is, the pictures you have been asking for! Here are the pics from my first dress shopping experiance. I cant wait to go again!
http://i20.photobucket.com/albums/b223/Canadorephoenix/DSCF0459.jpg
Here is my first dress. I didnt like it to much, and it didnt fit right.
http://i20.photobucket.com/albums/b223/Canadorephoenix/DSCF0465.jpg
Dress number two. It looked very pretty, but still didnt fit right!
http://i20.photobucket.com/albums/b223/Canadorephoenix/DSCF0466.jpg
Here finally is dress number three. I love it and it fit great. Its a sweatheart, and it might not be the final choice but its still amazing.
Here is my BM Lisa in a dress we chose for her to try on, we would be getting it in green fo course.
http://i20.photobucket.com/albums/b223/Canadorephoenix/DSCF0462.jpg
The next dress we love. Again we would get it in green. front view and side view.
http://i20.photobucket.com/albums/b223/Canadorephoenix/DSCF0460.jpg
http://i20.photobucket.com/albums/b223/Canadorephoenix/DSCF0461.jpg

[alley06]

Awesome pics! I like the third one on you and the first one for your BM.

[Phoenix]

Thanks Alley. I cant wait to go again and try more on. We had so much fun, even if we dont get married for a while, I just love the trying on dresses part!

[alley06]

Thanks Alley. I cant wait to go again and try more on. We had so much fun, even if we dont get married for a while, I just love the trying on dresses part!

I went to three different stores. I would highly recommend at least that many. You get to try on a lot of different dresses plus you never know what you will find. Also, you'll find that you have different expereinces at each store. The last one I went to, they were so snotty that I was glad that I hadn't gone to that store first.

[Phoenix]

Yeah, I went to two the first day, and I think its just going to snowball from there! lol, I love going and trying on dresses so I dont see going to just three. Its so much fun, I want to put the wedding off just so I can try on dresses for longer!

[alley06]

Yeah, I went to two the first day, and I think its just going to snowball from there! lol, I love going and trying on dresses so I dont see going to just three. Its so much fun, I want to put the wedding off just so I can try on dresses for longer!

It is fun! Some of the dresses are so elegant. I had fun taking my neices (who are in the wedding) because they would pick out dresses for me to try on. Most of them were out of my price range, I wouldn't have picked them off the rack because of that but they don't look at price, they look at prettiness.

[DNM1010]

I dont know why i didnt post this when it happened but I was just thinking about it now. I dont know how many of you remember how nervous I was to tell my parents and his parents. Well Everyone is aware of the engagement and happy to ok with it. lol, When we Traveled to his mothers home for thanksgiving we told her about it and she was happy about it. She gave me a big hug and welcomed me to the family! lol i was scared. My mom already knew so she was no problem, dad was the big one to fear! We went to my parents house for my birthday and told him the night of my birthday and eh toasted us, congradulated us, and gave us his blessing! :D:D i was so happy!!! We got a beautifull engagment card and everything went well! :D Now he is comming home withe me for christmas and gets to meet the rest of my family!! lol He is kind of nervous but looking forward to it. Dad is having some troubles comming to terms with things i think. daddy's little girl complex?? lol Anyone else have this with their dads??
wow i dont blame u for being scared.. nick and i are terrified of my dad... in f act evertone knows were engaged the only reason its not official os cos we havent had the guts to tell my dad yet. im the eldest daughter and he is turning 50 this yr and so its gonna be a major ure getting old blow...

im scared!!!

[Phoenix]

I was looking at the dresses on me and i think its to much white, what do you girls think? Honest opinion!!!!

[acraig]

I was looking at the dresses on me and i think its to much white, what do you girls think? Honest opinion!!!!


I love it, i think that the white is going to look great on you, i say go for all white, but i would have to see pics of you in something other than white!

[Phoenix]

I love it, i think that the white is going to look great on you, i say go for all white, but i would have to see pics of you in something other than white!
Thanks Ashley. I might try on some white and Ivory dresses next time I go. I will post pics and you guys can tell me what you think.

[Phoenix]

So,lol I redid my flowers once again! Lol I think they are going to stay like this now, I love the way they look. What do you ladies think?

My Bouquet:
http://i20.photobucket.com/albums/b223/Canadorephoenix/DSCF0472.jpg

BM's and MOH bouquet:
http://i20.photobucket.com/albums/b223/Canadorephoenix/DSCF0495.jpg

[acraig]

So,lol I redid my flowers once again! Lol I think they are going to stay like this now, I love the way they look. What do you ladies think?

My Bouquet:
http://i20.photobucket.com/albums/b223/Canadorephoenix/DSCF0472.jpg

BM's and MOH bouquet:
http://i20.photobucket.com/albums/b223/Canadorephoenix/DSCF0495.jpg



I love your boquet how did you do that??? What kind of flowers did you use?? Sorry I am jsut full of questions!!

[alley06]

Your flowers look fabulous!

[Phoenix]

Thanks Ashley, I bought one of those foam flower holder things from a craft shop, they look like this
http://i20.photobucket.com/albums/b223/Canadorephoenix/DSCF0497.jpg

then I just put my flowers in it. went around in rows and then did the top, I had to trim them pretty short, and it takes a few flowers, *quite a few* but I think the effect is great, you could also do a longer bouquet with them to. I got my flowers from www.efavormart.com they were great to deal with and the flowers are great quality! Any thing else I can help you with just let me know!

[MayFlowers]

I love your boquet how did you do that??? What kind of flowers did you use?? Sorry I am jsut full of questions!!
They look FABULOUS!!!!!! Great job!

[Phoenix]

Thanks Sam. :D I dont think I will be tweaking them any more!

[Phoenix]

Ok I found some more dresses and what not that I like. Let me know what you ladies think. All of these can be made to plus size to fit me and my BM's!

http://i20.photobucket.com/albums/b223/Canadorephoenix/greenfairiedress.jpg
http://i20.photobucket.com/albums/b223/Canadorephoenix/greenwhooshdress.jpg
http://i20.photobucket.com/albums/b223/Canadorephoenix/greendress2.jpg
http://i20.photobucket.com/albums/b223/Canadorephoenix/greenbridesmaid.jpg
http://i20.photobucket.com/albums/b223/Canadorephoenix/greenandblackdress.jpg
http://i20.photobucket.com/albums/b223/Canadorephoenix/alfredangelodress.jpg

[acraig]

Ok I found some more dresses and what not that I like. Let me know what you ladies think. All of these can be made to plus size to fit me and my BM's!

http://i20.photobucket.com/albums/b223/Canadorephoenix/greenfairiedress.jpg
http://i20.photobucket.com/albums/b223/Canadorephoenix/greenwhooshdress.jpg
http://i20.photobucket.com/albums/b223/Canadorephoenix/greendress2.jpg
http://i20.photobucket.com/albums/b223/Canadorephoenix/greenbridesmaid.jpg
http://i20.photobucket.com/albums/b223/Canadorephoenix/greenandblackdress.jpg
http://i20.photobucket.com/albums/b223/Canadorephoenix/alfredangelodress.jpg



I like them a lot, i think at least 5 different girls onthis web site have that same dress, it is very popular!!

[Phoenix]

A church would be a good setting for your Irish theme wedding, or if the season and weather permit for it, a garden or meadow with a view of rolling green hills reminiscent of the Emerald Isle. You might ask around to see if anyone knows of a priest or minister with an Irish brogue who could perform the ceremony using Irish wedding traditions.

Since lace has long been popular in Ireland, a white lace bridal gown would be in keeping with this theme. You could add colored accents, such as an emerald tiara or necklace, or a mixture of wildflowers and shamrocks fastened in your hair. Put shamrocks in your bouquet, too. Real shamrocks tend to wilt fast when out of water, so faux might be a good choice. You can easily make your own with stiffened green fabric hot-glued to green floral wire.

A few Irish-language expressions of love would add unique flavor to your Irish theme wedding vows.

Give your Irishe theme wedding invitations an Irish style with elegant Celtic-knot patterns and a Celtic font. Or, if you prefer something more lighthearted, cut your invitations in a pot-of-gold shape, print rainbows on the fronts, and sprinkle fairy dust (glitter) inside.

You might hang an Irish blessing over the door for your guests to walk under as they enter. Many good examples can be found online.

Ivy grows rampant in Ireland. Faux ivy garlands hung on walls or arranged along tables would impart a fresh, cool look.

You might wish to try a traditional Irish wedding cake for your Irish theme wedding. This would be a dense fruitcake iced in white. You could make the top tier an Irish-whiskey cake and save it to share on your first anniversary. For a "lucky" cake, have the layers baked in a shamrock shape with shamrock charms inside.

Irish wedding traditions include feasts that are traditionally potluck. For real Irish flavor, serve traditional dishes such as corned beef and cabbage, or Irish stew and soda bread, washed down with mead (honey wine, sometimes flavored with fruit). Or, you could have sandwiches and cookies cut in a shamrock shape and serve "leprechaun punch." Use a lime-flavored powdered-drink mix for a color base and go from there.

The Irish love a good toast. You can find many to choose from online in English or in Irish. Have guests kiss "the Blarney Stone" before making speeches at the toast.

No Irish theme wedding can be complete without Irish music. This is at its best played live, so hire a fiddler or an Irish uillean (elbow) piper (the bagpipes we frequently hear are Scottish, not Irish), or an entire Irish band. A musician playing a metal-stringed Celtic harp would add an ethereal and authentic sound.

[Phoenix]

lol, i think so to. I might try it in though and it look horrendous so i dont know! lol.

[alley06]

I love that dress, it is very popular. I love the last BM dress.

[Phoenix]

I found some more things I wanted to show you ladies!

wedding rind ideas
http://i20.photobucket.com/albums/b223/Canadorephoenix/WED183.jpg
http://i20.photobucket.com/albums/b223/Canadorephoenix/claddagh.jpg
http://i20.photobucket.com/albums/b223/Canadorephoenix/B0007XRVBG.jpg

Cake
http://i20.photobucket.com/albums/b223/Canadorephoenix/Irish.jpg

Garder
http://i20.photobucket.com/albums/b223/Canadorephoenix/003689.jpg

Favor Idea
http://i20.photobucket.com/albums/b223/Canadorephoenix/Claddaugh_Brdr.jpg

[DNM1010]

TRADITIONAL IRISH BLESSING


May the road rise to meet you,
May the wind be always at your back.
May the sun shine warm upon your face,
The rains fall soft upon your fields.
And until we meet again,
May God hold you in the palm of his hand.

May God be with you and bless you;
May you see your children's children.
May you be poor in misfortune,
Rich in blessings,
May you know nothing but happiness
From this day forward.

May the road rise to meet you
May the wind be always at your back
May the warm rays of sun fall upon your home
And may the hand of a friend always be near.

May green be the grass you walk on,
May blue be the skies above you,
May pure be the joys that surround you,
May true be the hearts that love you.

nick is half irish and they have this up at their house... its really sweet :) i thought id share it with you

[Phoenix]

TRADITIONAL IRISH BLESSING


May the road rise to meet you,
May the wind be always at your back.
May the sun shine warm upon your face,
The rains fall soft upon your fields.
And until we meet again,
May God hold you in the palm of his hand.

May God be with you and bless you;
May you see your children's children.
May you be poor in misfortune,
Rich in blessings,
May you know nothing but happiness
From this day forward.

May the road rise to meet you
May the wind be always at your back
May the warm rays of sun fall upon your home
And may the hand of a friend always be near.

May green be the grass you walk on,
May blue be the skies above you,
May pure be the joys that surround you,
May true be the hearts that love you.

nick is half irish and they have this up at their house... its really sweet :) i thought id share it with you

What a great one! I wanted something to put above an arch that everyone can walk through and get pics taken under! Thanks!

[Phoenix]

Irish punch
2 liters pineapple juice
2 envelopes unsweetened lime Kool-Aid
1 liter lime sherbet
2 liters ginger ale or 7-Up soda

Or
A more adult version:
1/2 cup sugar
1 cup water
1 6 oz. can frozen lemonade
2 6 oz. cans frozen orange juice
2 bottles Armagan Champagne
8 oz. green creme de menthe
1 qt. ginger ale
1/2 oz. rum
1/2 oz. Armagan Cognac (French Cognac)
1/2 oz. Cointreau
1 qt. orange sherbet
block of ice
Thought this might be cute. Thanks Jenn!

[DNM1010]

http://www.bridalpeople.com/images/products/8931-L.jpg


http://www.bridalpeople.com/images/products/9535-L.jpg

[Phoenix]

http://www.bridalpeople.com/images/products/8931-L.jpg


http://www.bridalpeople.com/images/products/9535-L.jpg
I absolutly love the second one Donna. Thank you so much! They are fantastic!

[DNM1010]

I absolutly love the second one Donna. Thank you so much! They are fantastic!
yay im so happy you like them... the site also has a red headed bride and groom figures :) nicks mom is very irish ans she loves angels so i might get her one of those two figurines for chrismas :)

[Phoenix]

That would make an excellent christmas gift. Any ideas on how to decorate a reception hall for an Irish/Celtic wedding would be greatly appreciated as well.

[blushing_bride_2be]

I found some stuff for you girl but I don't know if they are at all anything you wants. BTW I love the second one too. Perfect and donna buy it for christmas. Perfect!

The Link: http://www.favorsandflowers.com/irish_wedding_theme.htm

http://www.favorsandflowers.com/images/shamrock_floating_candle_detail.jpg

http://www.favorsandflowers.com/images/shamrock_ball_candle_detail.jpg

http://www.favorsandflowers.com/images/frosted_shamrock_votive_holder_detail.jpg

http://www.favorsandflowers.com/images/4_leaf_clover.jpg

http://www.favorsandflowers.com/images/shamrock_glass_detail.jpg

http://www.favorsandflowers.com/images/shamrock_cellophane_favor_bags_detail.jpg

http://www.favorsandflowers.com/images/shamrock-candle-holder-favors-detail.jpg

http://www.favorsandflowers.com/images/shamrock-wedding-chocolates.jpg
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http://www.creativecakes.uk.com/images2/photo_2.gif

http://www.cakesbyann.co.uk/celtic%20connection.jpg

[alley06]

I love that 2nd to the last cake! It would go really well with your theme and still look elegant.

[DNM1010]

my uncle had an irish/celtic wedding.. they had a band playing the bagpipes when they walked down the isle.. and they had a priest with an irish accent, and they all wore kilts, and the BM wore dark green.. it wasnt overdone in irish stuff but it was just enough. ill try to think of more things they did... this was a few yrs ago and unfortunately i didnt pay much attention to the details...

[Phoenix]

Everything looks amazing Stacia, thanks! I love the first cake, but realically i would go with the second one.
Donna that would be great, I am looking into having pipers at the cerimony and the girls in green dresses. :D Thanks everyone.

[alley06]

Everything looks amazing Stacia, thanks! I love the first cake, but realically i would go with the second one.
Donna that would be great, I am looking into having pipers at the cerimony and the girls in green dresses. :D Thanks everyone.

The first cake almost looks like the design was made on that edible paper. You could have that done if you can find a design and print it out to the size you want (all the strips and the front design). Fit as many on a 8 1/2x 11 peice of a paper in the color you want and take it to your local Hy-Vee, Dahls, what ever grocery store that has a bakery. I know my Hy-Vee did one for a cake that I had for FH's birthday. Then I took it (sealed in a plastic bag) to Dairy Queen and had them put the design on the cake for me. Ask who ever does your cake about that, it might work if you want to use that cake.

[Phoenix]

Thats a great idea Alley. I was thinking of making my own cake. but I really want it to be perfect so I dont know. lol. If we make our own I definatly am not creative enough to do that, but if I go to a proffecional I will deffinatly take them that pic!

[BearPawGal]

Beautiful dresses Amanda! :) I love the red one...love the pattern on it. As for the silver dresses, I vote for the 1st one. My bridesmaid is kinda top heavy too (I read further you mentioned yours being top heavy :)) and tried one on like the 2nd one...and the **** area looked all stretched out and icky on her, she didn't like it and I didn't either. I have a pic of her in a similar dress, but you can't see the total front to see what I'm referring to..but I can show you if you'd like. :)

[BearPawGal]

Ok ladies, here it is, the pictures you have been asking for! Here are the pics from my first dress shopping experiance. I cant wait to go again!
http://i20.photobucket.com/albums/b223/Canadorephoenix/DSCF0459.jpg
Here is my first dress. I didnt like it to much, and it didnt fit right.
http://i20.photobucket.com/albums/b223/Canadorephoenix/DSCF0465.jpg
Dress number two. It looked very pretty, but still didnt fit right!
http://i20.photobucket.com/albums/b223/Canadorephoenix/DSCF0466.jpg
Here finally is dress number three. I love it and it fit great. Its a sweatheart, and it might not be the final choice but its still amazing.
Here is my BM Lisa in a dress we chose for her to try on, we would be getting it in green fo course.
http://i20.photobucket.com/albums/b223/Canadorephoenix/DSCF0462.jpg
The next dress we love. Again we would get it in green. front view and side view.
http://i20.photobucket.com/albums/b223/Canadorephoenix/DSCF0460.jpg
http://i20.photobucket.com/albums/b223/Canadorephoenix/DSCF0461.jpgWooo hooo!! Dress trying on time! Don't you just love this part?? I know I did! LOL I have to agree... I like the one you called the sweetheart one. You looked beautiful in it and the lacey deco. is beautiful too. :) The BM dress above, red one, is very similar to the ones I chose for my girls, except theirs has the split front. :)

[blushing_bride_2be]

You know what was so funny. I was walking around the bridal aisle at wal-mart and they sell the fondant rolled icing. I mean I picke dup the box and it was all rolled up. I mispelled that didn't I? lol. I was like freaking out. It was heavy!

[Phoenix]

I wish my walmart had a bridal section!

[acraig]

I think i would die if my walmart didnt have a bridal section.

[Phoenix]

It definatly makes wedding planning a little rougher.

[acraig]

It definatly makes wedding planning a little rougher.



That and i think i would die if i had no hobby lobby because i am there almost everyweekend looking for new wedding stuff that i must have, you know how that goes!!

[Phoenix]

LOL I dont have a hobby lobby either. lol CLearly us Canadian girls are suffering quite the craft deprivation!

[Phoenix]

Here are some more dresses I have been looking at, of course these are just ideas,and you honest opinions are of course asked for!

http://i20.photobucket.com/albums/b223/Canadorephoenix/product_image17.jpg

http://i20.photobucket.com/albums/b223/Canadorephoenix/product_image18.jpg

http://i20.photobucket.com/albums/b223/Canadorephoenix/product_image15.jpg

http://i20.photobucket.com/albums/b223/Canadorephoenix/product_image16.jpg

http://i20.photobucket.com/albums/b223/Canadorephoenix/product_image13.jpg

http://i20.photobucket.com/albums/b223/Canadorephoenix/product_image14.jpg

http://i20.photobucket.com/albums/b223/Canadorephoenix/product_image12.jpg

http://i20.photobucket.com/albums/b223/Canadorephoenix/product_image11.jpg

http://i20.photobucket.com/albums/b223/Canadorephoenix/product_image8.jpg

http://i20.photobucket.com/albums/b223/Canadorephoenix/product_image7.jpg

http://i20.photobucket.com/albums/b223/Canadorephoenix/product_image5.jpg

http://i20.photobucket.com/albums/b223/Canadorephoenix/product_image6.jpg

http://i20.photobucket.com/albums/b223/Canadorephoenix/product_image3.jpg

http://i20.photobucket.com/albums/b223/Canadorephoenix/product_image4.jpg

http://i20.photobucket.com/albums/b223/Canadorephoenix/product_image.jpg

http://i20.photobucket.com/albums/b223/Canadorephoenix/product_image2.jpg

[DNM1010]

i like this one

http://i20.photobucket.com/albums/b223/Canadorephoenix/product_image15.jpg

and this makes me think IRISH lol
http://i20.photobucket.com/albums/b223/Canadorephoenix/product_image5.jpg

[Phoenix]

More Dresses!
http://i20.photobucket.com/albums/b223/Canadorephoenix/product_image20.jpg
http://i20.photobucket.com/albums/b223/Canadorephoenix/product_image21.jpg
http://i20.photobucket.com/albums/b223/Canadorephoenix/product_image22.jpg

[Phoenix]

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and this makes me think IRISH lol
http://i20.photobucket.com/albums/b223/Canadorephoenix/product_image5.jpg[/QUOTE]

I love that one

[DNM1010]

and this makes me think IRISH lol
http://i20.photobucket.com/albums/b223/Canadorephoenix/product_image5.jpg[/QUOTE]

I love that one[/QUOTE]
i would chose from those two i posted,,, i think theyre both very elegant! can you try them on?

[Phoenix]

I found them online, I might look for places that carry those designers and see if I can try them on. I dont want to order something without trying it on first, I would be afraid of getting it and it not looking good on me.

[DNM1010]

More Dresses!
http://i20.photobucket.com/albums/b223/Canadorephoenix/product_image20.jpg
http://i20.photobucket.com/albums/b223/Canadorephoenix/product_image21.jpg
http://i20.photobucket.com/albums/b223/Canadorephoenix/product_image22.jpg


i really like that look with the sleeves like that... the last one there is incredible! i love the lace!

[Phoenix]

I loved those to. LOL I seriously have to stop doing this to myself, cause I might never find these dresses and just fall in love and never know what its like to wear them!

[Phoenix]

More pics and what of mis stuff.

Cake
http://i20.photobucket.com/albums/b223/Canadorephoenix/wed_web.jpg

http://i20.photobucket.com/albums/b223/Canadorephoenix/irishcastle.jpg

http://i20.photobucket.com/albums/b223/Canadorephoenix/Irish1.jpg

http://i20.photobucket.com/albums/b223/Canadorephoenix/134692e0.jpg

http://i20.photobucket.com/albums/b223/Canadorephoenix/33.jpg

Garter:

http://i20.photobucket.com/albums/b223/Canadorephoenix/14_1_b.jpg

Candle

http://i20.photobucket.com/albums/b223/Canadorephoenix/003576.jpg

Cake Topper

http://i20.photobucket.com/albums/b223/Canadorephoenix/cake-topper100.jpg

Rings:

http://i20.photobucket.com/albums/b223/Canadorephoenix/R116LY.jpg

Invitations:

http://i20.photobucket.com/albums/b223/Canadorephoenix/shamrock_heart_wedding_invitations_.gif

http://i20.photobucket.com/albums/b223/Canadorephoenix/shamrock_cross_irish_wedding_invita.gif

http://i20.photobucket.com/albums/b223/Canadorephoenix/mont_2.gif

http://i20.photobucket.com/albums/b223/Canadorephoenix/medieval_border_wedding_invitations.gif

http://i20.photobucket.com/albums/b223/Canadorephoenix/irish_wedding_invitations_small.gif

http://i20.photobucket.com/albums/b223/Canadorephoenix/irish_theme_wedding_invitations_swe.gif

http://i20.photobucket.com/albums/b223/Canadorephoenix/celtic_wedding_invitations_irish_je.gif

http://i20.photobucket.com/albums/b223/Canadorephoenix/celtic_theme_wedding_invitations_sm.gif

http://i20.photobucket.com/albums/b223/Canadorephoenix/celtic_knot_wedding_invitations_sma.gif

http://i20.photobucket.com/albums/b223/Canadorephoenix/celtic_knot_wedding_invitation_gree.gif

http://i20.photobucket.com/albums/b223/Canadorephoenix/bx-ce-300.jpg

[DNM1010]

http://images.redenvelope.com/is/image/production/H05_159970_W?nanos=770&qlt=75,0&resMode=sharp&op_usm=0.5,1.0,0.0,0&wid=250&hei=250

[Phoenix]

That is super nice! It would make a great favor, or nice as a centre piece with a candle behind it.......options options

[Phoenix]

I was wondering ladies, how would you really class up this wedding to suite an evening time and still keep it authentic? Any ideas?

[DNM1010]

I was wondering ladies, how would you really class up this wedding to suite an evening time and still keep it authentic? Any ideas?
i dont understand what you mean authentic?

[Phoenix]

True to an Irish cerimony. I dont want ppl to leave thinking they have sat through a geography class but I want them to know they were at a celtic wedding.

[alley06]

More Dresses!
http://i20.photobucket.com/albums/b223/Canadorephoenix/product_image20.jpg
http://i20.photobucket.com/albums/b223/Canadorephoenix/product_image21.jpg
http://i20.photobucket.com/albums/b223/Canadorephoenix/product_image22.jpg

I love the last dress! It is a very pretty dress and looks very celtic.

[Phoenix]

Thanks Alley, I love them all, I cant wait to get out and try on more dresses!

[acraig]

Thanks Alley, I love them all, I cant wait to get out and try on more dresses!


I of course have to add my opinion and i really like the last dress, it looks very pretty with all of hte detail, let us know when you get more pics!!

[Jenn031706]

One thing you could do to add a little history/ customs/ traditions, is have a few things in your program. Or do picture frames around the guestbook area that explains history and customs behind some of the things you are doing at your wedding. I am thinking about using scrapbook paper layered as table decor and writing different Irish blessings and toasts on each of them. It will give the guests something to do or talk about while at the table. I'm also thinking of doing a mini Irish flag in each of the centerpieces. If I can think of anymore ways I will let you know. If you are looking for a few more Irish/Celtic cake ideas, I found a few more toward the end of my journal.
Jenn
P.S. I really love the last dress! Lace is traditional Irish attire and that just looks beautiful!

[xamy710]

I really like the second dress, it's very beautiful. Your ideas are great!!!




http://www.snugglepie.com/ezb/327633.png (http://www.snugglepie.com)

[Phoenix]

Thanks everyone for stoping by! I love to hear your ideas and thoughts.

[alley06]

When are you going to try on more dresses?

[Phoenix]

I dont know yet, likely after christmas. My friend and I might go down to the next city to try some on.