intensse love

[Marsha]

[Kelly1Mickey]

That is a sweet story...my FH and I met in a similar way. I work at a resort and he was a guest. Big taboo!! I even had to authorization to see him when he asked me out. Anyway, which resort do you work at? I am a big disney dork and we are over there all the time.

[Kelly1Mickey]

I worked at the caribbean beach resort. He still does, i moved on to a better career.
I cant tell you how many guests hit on employees. Some are married there with there family. When i lived in chicago, i used to date a few guys that would be in town for a long periods of time. I neer got cought thank god

We get a lot of guests hitting on the employees too, but I think we have just as many employees hitting on the guests! Those naughty guys that work at the pool...too many temptations for them I guess! ;)

[reecey]

i am looking for eiffle tower name holders. We are kinda doing a goth/travel theme and i am all about paris(even have a tatoo of the eiffle tower) it would be a good tie in,

i have a pic i need to scan of how the table will be set up. but since our wedding is small we can do practically anything(if we find what i envision)


check this one out

http://www.everythingeiffel.com/php/showproducts_everything_eiffel.php3?title=homedeco r&choixprod=handlecard

Hope this helps! :)

[reecey]

reecy!!!!!! omg omg omg i LOVE YOU!!! where do you find this stuff? ive been searching for days! days days i mean days! omg im so excited! AMAZING!!!!!! how do i ever repay something like this? im so greatful! im crying now! omg

ok calm down, and get the credit card out, and CHARGE!!!!!




whoooooo hooooooooooo! i have something i totally love!


hehe :) I have a lot of time on my hands at work some days - gotta love a highspeed internet connection and free time! Especially when you're getting paid for it :P

[reecey]

we must have a similiar job. I work for a heavy truck dealer ship. I get all kinds of time. and im not complaining!

I work in investments and financial planning. Do you work in the office?

[Kelly1Mickey]

i was thinking and this might be a bight crazy, but since my dining room table is long and has a place setting for 8 i was thinking of gathering a few of the things i want to use. and kinda setting it up as i imagine? maybe my focus wouldnt be so crazy then.

our main focus of the reception is the dinner, we are having a huge 10 course meal.


That is not crazy at all, we have set our table up a million times with different options.

[SarahK]

i was thinking and this might be a bight crazy, but since my dining room table is long and has a place setting for 8 i was thinking of gathering a few of the things i want to use. and kinda setting it up as i imagine? maybe my focus wouldnt be so crazy then.

our main focus of the reception is the dinner, we are having a huge 10 course meal.

I agree with Kelly1Mickey... its actually a very smart move in my opinion.

[loveatfirstphp]

check this one out

http://www.everythingeiffel.com/php/showproducts_everything_eiffel.php3?title=homedeco r&choixprod=handlecard

Hope this helps! :)


Thanks for posting this site. I love the effiel tower. My finace proposed to me on the effiel tower at Kings Island. It's 1/3 the size of the real one. But I try to collect everything with effiel towers on it. He's going to kill me. :D

[Marsha]

Thanks for posting this site. I love the effiel tower. My finace proposed to me on the effiel tower at Kings Island. It's 1/3 the size of the real one. But I try to collect everything with effiel towers on it. He's going to kill me. :D


where is kings island? i've never heard of it

[loveatfirstphp]

where is kings island? i've never heard of it

It's in Cincinnati Ohio. Sorry, I'm so used to everyone knowing where it is that I didn't think to say anything. It's an amusment park. He propose during the firworks that they shoot off at the end of the night while we were at the top of the tower.

[lilone]

we met for lunch today, total surprise! I was trying not to talk about the wedding because i dont want to show him how consumed ive gotten at work with this.He hates people who obsess over things(oops) so as i went to eat a french fri, he says, Im so excited we are doing this. Have you been thinking about the wedding? I just sat there for about .0003 seconds and started to smile. he said he spent the morning looking at a web sight getting ideas. so then i whipped out my little "folder" it says work stuff on it so he wouldnt go in it lol. and show him some stuff and we are on the same wave length. He even mentioned that we might move the date up. :eek: MEN!!! cant live with them, dont want to live with out HIM

that's awesome. I wish my FH would get involved but he's one of those who just says tell me where to be and when. You really are a very lucky lady. Best of luck to you both and I'm sure everything will turn out absolutely perfect.

[lilone]

here is something like i imagine, when the dishes get cleared. what am i thinking? it wont look like this it will be a total mess.. i got to come up with something grrrrr at my ideas :mad:

Don't ever GRRRR at your ideas! It is a beautiful idea. Talk to your caterer and reception site. Maybe you can have the candles already on the tables during dinner and then as they clear the dishes away they can light them. There are so many ways for it to work and I know that when you do it it will be beautiful.

[NYjerseygirl]

OMG are you having a paris theme? I think I know a girl that has that too. :) what a great theme. Let me go look for her journal right now for you.

[NYjerseygirl]

I don't think she's having a paris theme persay but I know I saw many eifeel tower things in her journal, here is the link. Shes on her honeyymoon right now in tahiti, she'll be back in 2 weeks! :)

Part 1 (http://boards.weddingchannel.com/showthread.php?s=&threadid=453085)

part 2 (http://boards.weddingchannel.com/showthread.php?s=&threadid=468824&perpage=25&pagenumber=1)

http://www.babiole.com/images/porteargent.jpg

http://im1.shutterfly.com/procserv/47b4dc36b3127cceb8e1ecadcfd10000001610

[NYjerseygirl]

thats awesome!! i waskkinda looking but at work its hard ill view it all today when i get home. i love her invites!

Yes she has great taste!

[Marsha]

got some dasies tonight and stuff to play with flowers, and we sucked at it. lol i didnt buy enough dasies but it at least gave some what of an idea. basically i didnt like dasies! is aw lillies at the store i fell in love with. and i think those would be elegant and would fit better into my wedding theme.

i want a wrap. one of those long ones. Im wondering if they sell them on e bay? or are they easy to make. im good with a sewing machine but that dosent mean anything lol. Im so excioted i cant sleep tonight im going dress shopping tomorrow night! i've contimplated calling in sick. lol

i also opened the feathers! oooooops. It was actually funny, my best friend is a gay guy(dell) and he was "acting" with the flowers and saying what he tought of the way they were comming out.and i went to tear the package carefully and a bunch of feathers were in the air. hahahahaahah we sat and laughed so hard i almost wet myself. But i got a bag of white pink grey and blue. then a whole bag of black. im going to do the tables this weekend to see if i like them. so i have plenty of feathers. and if i dont i saw this great idea on tv how to decorate a lampshade.
i bought a book today and hopefully ill have lots of cut outs.

[NYjerseygirl]

I am so sorry, but when it's right it will happen. Good luck, hope to see you back soon.

[Kelly1Mickey]

I am sorry too. I think whenever you decide to continue with the planning, you should take someone besides your mom with you. She just seems to add stress to an already stressful decision!

[reecey]

ok everyone, After tonight's fiasco, of trying to find a dress ive decided to call things off. I still want to be with harry, and we are still engaged but wedding planning right now is called off officially. I cant decide on anything at all, and i feel like im going crazy.

tonight wile looking for a dress my mom decides to tell me im not supposta wear white or basically anything with color? so wtf do i wear? and she told me i look like a white elephant in ivory/cream. Then she got an attitude because the dress i did like was ivory and a haulter with nothing on the skirt. When we started looking for the dress i said i would try on anything they wanted me to. I tried on 4 first one had so much beading and material it reminded me of my 1988 wedding. 2nd dress was a strapless that my huge ****s cant support. 3rd one i didnt even step out of the closet. and then the 4th the one i liked. my face was red and my eyes started to puff. I didnt want a viel and she pushed untill i stuck the **** thing on my head. i wanted a wrap and she told me i should consider a heafty bag. The only good thing i liked was the sandals i got to try on with the dress. I decided in the store and with the consultant that maybe now wasnt a good time to try on things,we looked at formals for my sis and mom then, and my mom put on a hookers dress, i asked her if she wanted me to take her down town. (it was really an attack after how she treated me)(but then again my mom needs a dress that goes at least to the knee.. not the hip! my sis really like the "apple" red color and so did i and it goes with the wedding color. and she wanted to pick something like the dress i picked out wich is fine. But i dont want her to steal the show. So on the car ride home i was really quiet and when i walked in the door i burst into tears. Harry is in indiana visitng his folks so i called him sobbing. He said we need a wedding break and we mutualy said no wedding talk/planning.

Thanks everyone i really appreciate your help and i will miss you all. Thank YOU


sweetie - just take a deep breath and remind yourself that its you getting married, not your mom! tell her to take a deep breath herself and hold it in - either till she passes out or can learn how to shut her mouth! :P

Nothing wrong with taking a break from wedding planning. Just hang in there and know that Harry supports you 100%!

[lilone]

Well this is still how I feel today. So I’ve decided I’ve made the best choice. Occasionally ill check back in and post something, other wise I would miss you. I will still be looking out for things I like and decided on and when I have more of what I want then we will pick a definite date. I just felt it was so much of a job, and I wasn’t even sure what i liked, or wanted. For the next few weeks, I’m just going to casually look and if something keeps my attention then I know it was what I WANT. As for the dress, I really did like the 4th one I tried on, but it didn’t speak to me. When the time is right ill go alone, or with my best friend and look. I guess I have such a hard time with all this planning because, after my first marriage I never wanted to be married again. (burned bad bad bad) I DO want to be with Harry forever but I feel so much attention goes on planning for a DAY when what I need to plan on is for today and the future.

I'm so sorry this is happening to you. I've felt the same way more than once. I think that as long as you want to be with him and he knows you want to be with him it doesn't matter when you have the wedding. Another option that I've seen a lot of girls post about here is do a quickie JOP ceremony and then when you decide the time is right and you feel you have the presence of mind to be able to plan it then do the big family and friends ceremony. At least if you do the JOP ceremony you will be married and you will have the satisfaction of knowing that you are his and he is yours forever and no matter how hard people may try they will never seperate you and you have proven to everyone that you don't need all the headaches the come with a big ceremony to be happy with him.

[NYjerseygirl]

Well you can still keep a journal to keep your ideas in order, no one says you have to get married immediately to have a planning journal set aside for your ideas, who knows? maybe it will inspire you.

[NYjerseygirl]

i have something to plan (kinda)

my FMIL wants to throw us a party in puerto rico!!! becuase so many of his older realtives cant make it. So she called me yesterday and asked me to think of a "theme" i want for 100 ppl. im sooo excited! i have no clue what theme to pick! i love to many... but this wont be all that hard. (not as hard as the wedding)- which we still arent planning right girls lol

That sounds so cool! My parents just moved to Puerto rico 4 weeks ago. Chuck and I plan to stay with them a few months after the wedding.

Wow 100 guests is quite some party. Is it bridal shower of some sort? And are all your guests flying to PR?

I remember one theme I recently saw on tv that was soooo classy, I loved it and I plan to do one in the future when we rent a beach house and that's a "great gatsby" theme. All the guests arrived wearing white including the men, and being it's in PR and it's so hot that would make for awesome wedding pictures especially if it's at night. As favors you can make them beach bags. But that's just an idea, i'm always full of crazy ideas. Don't mind me. :)

[NYjerseygirl]

no 100 people is harrys family! most of his aunts and uncles. His mom has 15 brothers and sisters and his dad has 9. So its just a big party in our honor because harry is the first grandchild on both sides.

i was thinking great gatsby's theme. Can i hire you for the event lol. either that or a sea side one, since that is big right now. Since his parents, are paying for this i dont want to go over the top to much, but i think it would be fun. to have some tradtional puerto rican music, mabe have my theme go around that? whats ya think rachel??

That sounds awesome! You can really pull off a very classy elegant spanish theme. ;)

[NYjerseygirl]

alright, we are settled on a few things! amazing in my world!

we are going to have a mariachi band(sp)
bright colors, harrys dad wants to do a pig roast, and all his aunts want to make food. mexican hat dance(i suggested lol) just a lot of partying, its not the wedding but its a party to honour harry and i and the love we have for each other. i really dont have to do to much, except make some table pieces. which will be little morraca's and fun stuff oooo maybe i can have a pinayta?

yes i know i spelled all these things wrong but im a typical american girl in love with a puertican boy. and i Have no clue how to speak or write in spanish lol!!!
I had no idea your love was PRican. I am PRican and my hubby is as white as they come, lol.

In pR roast pork is a huge deal, it's called Pernil. It is amazingly delicious. Can I come to this party too? LOL ;)

[NYjerseygirl]

you are most definitly invited to our party!!! so is everyone else! its going to be held in san juan!!! im sooooooooo excited!
I bet you are, I envy you! what a great location!

Here are a few links I found regarding Puerto Rican wedding customs, I am very americanized so I really can't tell you off the top of my head.

A Puerto Rican Wedding (http://www.elboricua.com/weddings.html)


I remember this! lol
Weddings

Throughout history there have been interesting similarities in the wedding traditions all around the world, but there are also some differences in the way they get married and celebrate such event. One unique characteristic of a Puerto Rican wedding is the bridal doll. A bridal doll, in a dress identical to the brides' gown, is usually placed on the head or center table with souvenirs attached to its dress. During the reception, the bride and groom will walk to each person and thank him or her for their presence at the nuptials. Each person is then pinned with a souvenir, some people in return pins dollars into the doll's dress.

PR wedding traditions (http://www.worldweddingtraditions.com/locations/caribbean_traditions/puerto_rican_traditions.html)

[SarahK]

oh my holy cowabunga!!! ( i cant believe i jsut said that)



we are going in 12 days to p.r.!!!! i leave on the 18th of june!!!! DID ANYONE HEAR ME 12 days!!!

when i got home harry told me he booked the tickets! im so excited!

his mom hired a potographer and ordered some flowers today to! its like a wedding with no vows! i love it!


:eek: i have 12 days to find some kinda dress! i saw one at davids bridal that i can buy off the rack its jsut aparty dress. but cute!

Soooo exciting... I know you'll have fun but we'll miss you here.

[SarahK]

I leave in 4 days!! my FMIL has set up so much of this party that I dont know if i could ever thank her enugh. Our party is on the 25th at 4p.m. so for the first week im there ill be able to relax a little bit. I want to by table pieces and decorations so going down to old san juan and shopping will be totally fun! I bought a dress at a store called fashion bug.We went to tampa this past weekend and just thought i would check it out 300.00 later i was finished shopping!(they had huge sales everything was like 10.00)


In the mean time ive settled into picking colors and theme for the real wedding. and just taking things one step at a time. When i find something i like i save it in a folder with all the important info I need for it. When i the is right then ill go back and order it.

:eek: i forgot. i had a little dinner party on friday, and i played mach maker, My sister has known one of my best guy friends all along, but i sat them next to each other and poof! everyone saw sparks. He called her yesterday and asked her on a date for thursday night! so this morning on my way to work, i got to listen to her be more excited then she's been in 2 years! im so happy for her, and him, he is a great guy.

Have fun Marcia... but we will really miss you!!! :cool:

[Marsha]

here is a great flower (sarah)http://www.feteny.com/consultancy_about.html

[SarahK]

sarah i know your going to kill me but i reall do like those flowers! they are so pretty.

im in a foul mood today so if i annoy somone on here im sorry. I just dont want to be at work today bored off my hiney!

Why would I kill you??? I WANTED you to see them because I loved them and I thought you'd like them. Silly girl.

[ca_dawson]

im in a foul mood today so if i annoy somone on here im sorry. I just dont want to be at work today bored off my hiney!

I hear you girl! I don't want to be at work either! I had a root canal yesterday and my jaw hurts and this temp tooth tastes like crap! I could have spent $530 on so much better things than a **** tooth! I'm starving and I can't open my mouth! Sucks because it's hard to keep my mouth closed since I'm usually such a motormouth at work! At least I can "talk" to yall without having to open my mouth! :p

[SarahK]

yeah well im usuing them flowers. LOL if we can figure out the name of them lol.

i told my boss i was taking a verry long lunch today 2 hours and he didnt care, i went and just sat in my car at a car warsh lol for 1/2 an hour. then ate 2 ice cream bars screw the diet. and called my insurance company and asked them why if every one who drives needs car insurance why why why in the fudge ripple is it so expensive. that is why i was in such a bad bad mood. they kept quoting me 200 a month for a 2001. kia. wasnt worth it really. finally they ***e down to 150. but still im not being cheep but 3000 for auto insurance a year is a lot of money. im also stressed cuse i was supposta pack last night and i didnt (its sarah's fault) i will have to do it tonight i must i must i must. im tired to im babbling im bored and i want chocolate. i have to run over to the fat girl store to try and get a bathing suit today, or tomoorw night. i forgot i only have 1 right now because the other is on the house boat. did anyone hear the new carrie underwood song? thats our wedding song, but we like the one sung by bo bice better i coppied that last night onto a disc for the party. We might be able to broadcast, i just have to also look into getting a "eye" ok 2 stores tonight. im goonna be broke i need another part time job.

I cannot believe that your insurance is so high... I pay only 300 or so every 6 months.

[SarahK]

there is no reason it is that high except i live in a tourist area. o well what can i do? im going to look into anna maria island today! hehehe

lol.. theres not much there... but its a nice little beach. I was there with a friend of mine who has a beach house there.

[SarahK]

Marcia- check out these cool goblets!!!!

http://i18.ebayimg.com/04/i/04/4c/82/b5_1_b.JPG

[SarahK]

and these!!!!!

http://www.sophiescrystal.com/Orrefors/images/intermezzo_black_champagne_62630_14.jpg

[NYjerseygirl]

OMG you party/trip is coming up, you must be so excited? have you packed yet?

[SarahK]

sarah, those are awesome! we have to get together and see what we can buy and both use. save us some money

no kidding... we can so totally share our stuff.

[Marsha]

im looking to buy garland of some sort. like grape vine garland, or something similiar.

[SarahK]

im looking to buy garland of some sort. like grape vine garland, or something similiar.

hmm.. grapevine garland... what for?

Like this?
http://store1.yimg.com/I/bevfabriccrafts_1848_41951850

[Marsha]

ummm not quiet. but maybe, looking for like ivy garland maybe but what u found could work. its going on some of the food tables and around for decoration.

[SarahK]

ummm not quiet. but maybe, looking for like ivy garland maybe but what u found could work. its going on some of the food tables and around for decoration.

So more like this?

http://store1.yimg.com/I/bevfabriccrafts_1847_1548307



By the way... I found them both here Save on Crafts (http://www.save-on-crafts.com)

[Marsha]

yeah kinda maybe.. but now im thinking of putting some feathers on it

[SarahK]

yeah kinda maybe.. but now im thinking of putting some feathers on it

I edited the last one to show toy the site, maybe you'll find what you want there.

[Marsha]

also saw some martooni glasses at the $$ store. since we are having a martini bar i thought we could do something with them. got a thing to make confetti, so when im bored i can sit around make a bunch of that. i also need to find some thing that floats in the pool. candles of course, and i think ill make them candles ones that keep the bugs away. but im also thinking of decorating some kinda basic round blow up toy with fake flowers. Member i told you about a bridge? since i really want it Harry is going to make it :o hes so good to me

[SarahK]

also saw some martooni glasses at the $$ store. since we are having a martini bar i thought we could do something with them. got a thing to make confetti, so when im bored i can sit around make a bunch of that. i also need to find some thing that floats in the pool. candles of course, and i think ill make them candles ones that keep the bugs away. but im also thinking of decorating some kinda basic round blow up toy with fake flowers. Member i told you about a bridge? since i really want it Harry is going to make it :o hes so good to me

awww.. thats sweet of him to make that for you. :o

I have no idea what you're saying about the blow up toy though. lol

[Marsha]

i want the pool to look nice, since people will be at some table around the pool. i want to float a few candles, and then some greenery. Im thinking of blowing up a smll childs intertube ring, and hot glueing some fake flowers on it.

[SarahK]

i want the pool to look nice, since people will be at some table around the pool. i want to float a few candles, and then some greenery. Im thinking of blowing up a smll childs intertube ring, and hot glueing some fake flowers on it.

LOL...ok I get it.

Hey- what if you enclosed the bottom of the innertube with something basically solid (but still make it float) and put candles and greenery and centerpiece-like stuff in there? I think that would be way cool!!!!

[SarahK]

just talked to FMIL, and shes so excited about me comming int his weekend! im so excited i packed last night. i bought her a 8 dollar thank you card. Also, i asked her for some pics of harry as a kid, she dosent have many because at 15 harry decided he hated all his baby pics and cut them up so she will ask family members. She also told me she dosent want me lifing a hand wile im there. If i want something somone will go into the city and get it. I'm going to go with anyway cuse i love the shopping part. I got my dress this morning back from the cleaners i wanna go home and put it on. im so excited!!!!!!!!

sarah, thanks, you are helping me with my wedding kinda keeping me calm. i should hire u as a coordinator for the day event.

ok back to some work so i can can in tomoorw lol

LOL, i am happy to help.. I love coming up with ideas for decorations, its so fun. :)

[Marsha]

i keep thinking about that movie, how to loose a guy in 10 days and the theme to the event was frosted. how cool would it be to do something with that

[SarahK]

i keep thinking about that movie, how to loose a guy in 10 days and the theme to the event was frosted. how cool would it be to do something with that

hmmm... never seen it. Will have to watch it next time I see that its on.

[reecey]

i keep thinking about that movie, how to loose a guy in 10 days and the theme to the event was frosted. how cool would it be to do something with that


haha I love that movie - its my fiance's second favorite "chick flick" right behind Sweet Home Alabama"

[Marsha]

love this dress

[SarahK]

love this dress


oooh gorgeous. I LOVE Maggie Sottero. You can find a lot of her stuff on ebay and also check out bridesave.com.. they sell gowns so much cheaper there.

[SarahK]

hey Marcia- check this out for your reception

http://i13.photobucket.com/albums/a259/shoogles/reception/frost2.jpg

[Marsha]

i actually like it, lol ihave to pass it to harry

[SarahK]

i actually like it, lol ihave to pass it to harry

lol.. well, I was thinking you could modify it, but that it might incorporate the feathers you wanted, you know?

[Marsha]

tables i've considered

[SarahK]

tables i've considered


love the one with all the candles in the wavy pattern

[Marsha]

one more...

[Marsha]

dont laugh sarah, but harry liked it almost gushed about your table lol! he wants to try and find the white glow sticks that go in those tubes. he is going to try and make them. Hes crafty. I was trying to look up those ice cube things to cuse they would look awesome in the martini's. but some i found were expensive.

[SarahK]

dont laugh sarah, but harry liked it almost gushed about your table lol! he wants to try and find the white glow sticks that go in those tubes. he is going to try and make them. Hes crafty. I was trying to look up those ice cube things to cuse they would look awesome in the martini's. but some i found were expensive.

Ok, I'm not laughing, but I am smiling and trying not to laugh. ;) I think you guys could pull that table off for real and it would be amazing. I wouldn't have posted it if I didn't think it would give you some sort of inspiration. Tell Harry I said to go for it. It will be so awesome. And I'll help any way I can with any other ideas... you know this!!!!!

[SarahK]

ok ok ok im at the airport and im totally excited!!!! 2 hours till i board the plane! whooo hoooooo i am going to take pics like crazy, ive never been before so its almost a honeymoon before the wedding! im sooo excited! exctied excited!

lol... i thought you were leaving in the morning?

[NYjerseygirl]

Yeah! wassup with that? :confused: :)

[SarahK]

Yeah! wassup with that? :confused: :)


Marcia is crazy. Yesterday she told me she was leaving st 5 am on sat. Its 8 pm on Fri. her clock is wrong or something.

[Kelly1Mickey]

I thought she said that her first flight was cancelled??

[NYjerseygirl]

hey Marcia- check this out for your reception

http://i13.photobucket.com/albums/a259/shoogles/reception/frost2.jpg
OMG, I have always loved those! I hope Marcia is able to pull them off, I have a feeling she can :)

[SarahK]

I thought she said that her first flight was cancelled??

did she? I missed that.

[SarahK]

OMG, I have always loved those! I hope Marcia is able to pull them off, I have a feeling she can :)


LOL... no kidding. I think she can too.

[SarahK]

whoooo hooooo im here!!!!!! omg is it hot.! but im loving it. im waiting for harrys mo to pick us up and she is lost. o well. ourt first flight out at 5 am was over booked they called and asked if we would go tonight.... hellll yes! ok gotta go

LOL... have fun sweating!!!!!

JK... have an awesome time, hun.

[NYjerseygirl]

whoooo hooooo im here!!!!!! omg is it hot.! but im loving it. im waiting for harrys mo to pick us up and she is lost. o well. ourt first flight out at 5 am was over booked they called and asked if we would go tonight.... hellll yes! ok gotta go
You have to take tons of pics and I don't want to hear no ***** about it. WOOHOO PUERTO RICO!!!!

[SarahK]

FYI- just got the final word from my mom on the china for the reception. We will be renting clear glass plates. :p Just thought I'd let you know.

[SarahK]

Hey, I know you're having fun partying and all, but I MISS YOU!!! LOL

Hurry up and come back. :p

[SarahK]

hey chickie, im missing you to! its like your my new best friend! lol

well we arrived and everything was awesome! his family is so nice and every time we turn around somone is handing me some money! His grandfather took me aside last night after fathers day dinner, and told me he sees how harry has changed into a great man. and that ive brought him patience. He is proud of us and knows that im a special girl, and ill be happy i chose harry to be my husband. i was balling my eyes out. and then he spoke to me in spanish(and i had no clue) but harry was listening in then, and he told me that grand pa made a blessing over me to be a strong woman and understand that i should never loose sight of being a wonderful human being. and so on..all i know was that it sounded beautiful. Today, when harry and his family wake up we will go cliff diving, and to this beach area to find some sea shells since that is going to be on some tables and such. his mom showed me all these things she bought and ive taken pics have to just upload them when i find the equipment. Harry is so at peace, its weird, hes so calm and happy and is loving right now. I mean he is always loving but its such a different feeling. its magical almost, like im in a whimsical fairtail. On saturday night i wanted to thank his mom and spend quality time with her so we went for a late night drink at this cantina, and i thanked her over and over, she is so sweet. i couldnt have asked her for anything more. I also was verry smart! haha, i said, you have planned something fun and spontanious here, but i was wondering what your vision would be for our wedding day. and she looked so happy that i asked her. She said she didnt know she got a say, or an opinion. And it was weird but she said, i just want elegant! soficated and fancy. my mouth almost dropped oopen to the floor. cuse tahts what we want. So i showed her some of the things ive copped off line and put into my binder and she is also in love with the feather idea. so we kinda are going to do a prelim one here one night. We lol are using those drink by the yard things(if u havent saw them u wont understand) and we bought some glow sticks, and she knows this store that sells feathers, so will hit that store tomoorw.but she was so excted. THen we found out that his grandmother will be comming for the wedding, as long as its in february and she will make us a dessert table and wedding cake. She said she could do 5000 yes 5000 total dessert in 4 days. SO we have to pick 10 differet desserts we want. and it will take her one day to build a cake. I told her she didnt have to but she slapped her chest and said.. ive done it for 50 years(being a baker) now i get to do it for somone i love and care about. Its been so much fun, ill ge thte pics our asap.. promise! im trying not to be tied to the computer so i will try to get up early and enjoy the peace and quiet, since this family is louder them mine when all together. i dont think ive ever been any happier in my life then i am right now.

:) I am so happy for you. That is such a great story. Can't wait till you get back and post pics. Have a blast and see if any of those nice family member wanna hand ME some $$$ too. LOL

[Marsha]

:) I am so happy for you. That is such a great story. Can't wait till you get back and post pics. Have a blast and see if any of those nice family member wanna hand ME some $$$ too. LOL

thanks sarah! I sooo wish everyone had a family like harry's it would be great.

[SarahK]

thanks sarah! I sooo wish everyone had a family like harry's it would be great.

No kidding. Ask them if they'd consider adopting. LOL ;)

[Kelly1Mickey]

Marcia...I am so excited for you! It sounds like you are having a great time. And I am sure it is really special for you to bond so well with Harry's mom, since you don't get along that well with yours. Of course we miis you, but don't be on the computer too much! I don't want you to miss a moment of fun on your vacation!

[Marsha]

here i am in 50 years

[NYjerseygirl]

amazing is all i can say! i was woken up this morning to a huge birthday feast! I MEAN FEAST. i swear that the buffet king stopped over or something, anyway we ate a huge breakfast because, we are going into the rain forest today!!!!!! im so **** excited. rain forest omg i never ever ever thought i would play in a rain forest. lol im scared and excited and enjoying it all at the same time. Last night, we were still on the beach at dusk, so harrys dad suggested we have a sand pit and catch our dinner, omg was it good. kinda weird at first but it was great. we ate different kinds of sea food and his brothers ran to the market and got veggies and such, His mother has from day one always called me her princess, and last night they toased to a new queen lol was funny his liitle brother who's 15 adores me and holds my hand all the time and will kiss my cheek. its cute, harrys always like, calm down shes staying for ever lol. but he told me i was almost as important to him as his mommy awwww ive had a great time! later tonight we will go down to san juan and shop shop shop ill pick each and every one of you up something nice! ok got to run, jsut wanted to check in.. miss ya all
OH wow, you are going to el yunque, you will lvoe it, let me know if you go to the tippy top where theres a tower so high you can actually touch the clouds :)

[SarahK]

im so exhausted today im just staying in the house! walking all day yesterday omg i have cramps where i didnt know places exist. Plus for what ever reason im having bad bad bad pain and tenderness on the left side of my stomach. Im afarid of telling my inlaws because being doctors they will want to xamine me or something :eek: anyway, i also got a call last night that my grandfather (moms dad) is seriously ill and in the hospital. My mom finally called me after 6+ months to tell me. Freaked me out when phone rang because she has a special ring tone (the sound of dooom lol) and i havent heard it in so long. But she was nice and we chated a few minutes. She knew i was in PR and that made me happy that she cared. Tonight we are supposta go to a familys house for dinner, im going to bow out and just nap like i have all day. ok so im rambling.. but o well... I miss you SarahK and maybe ill be on tonight and we can chat! I was thinking about rachels wedding and wishing i could be a fly on the wall, i just invision her to be so beautiful and i know she is going to cry a little when she sees chuck, im so excited for her. :D :D ok im going back to nap im in mad pain.

I miss you too and I hope I catch you on tonight. I am going to go see my grandmother who is up visiting from New Symrna, but I shouldn't be back late. And I know... i wish I was going to be at Rach's wedding this weekend. I just know its going to be sooo gorgeous. Have fun and take it easy. Don't get sick.

[SarahK]

totally love these flowers, and they can come in light pink shades, so im thinking of putting the white and pink together

i want to make a memory table,of harry and I. I dont really want a sign in book, im thining of doing the picture and mat board.

i absoutly love this dress, but i want there to be straps on both sholders, even though its poofy i really like it

The dress is beautiful. Sorry I missed you tonight. :(

[reecey]

totally love these flowers, and they can come in light pink shades, so im thinking of putting the white and pink together

i want to make a memory table,of harry and I. I dont really want a sign in book, im thining of doing the picture and mat board.

i absoutly love this dress, but i want there to be straps on both sholders, even though its poofy i really like it

a seamstress could easily add straps to this dress. Hell, *I* could add straps to this dress! :) Its actually very easy! I would talk to your seamstress that's doing your alterations :)

[Marsha]

i think my e-mail is broken. I havent goten any spam in days from, any of these sights. i feel sad noone wants to bother me :( o well, maybe i should go back to work since thats when i web search so much more

[SarahK]

cake stands on Ebay:

http://cgi.ebay.com/ws/eBayISAPI.dll?ViewItem&category=20939&item=5593159560&rd=1

http://cgi.ebay.com/ws/eBayISAPI.dll?ViewItem&category=3268&item=5593554897&rd=1

http://cgi.ebay.com/ws/eBayISAPI.dll?ViewItem&category=98732&item=5402810264&rd=1

http://cgi.ebay.com/ws/eBayISAPI.dll?ViewItem&category=1216&item=7332168128&rd=1

edited to add more

http://cgi.ebay.com/ws/eBayISAPI.dll?ViewItem&category=3268&item=5592294944&rd=1

http://cgi.ebay.com/ws/eBayISAPI.dll?ViewItem&category=3268&item=5592071695&rd=1

http://cgi.ebay.com/ws/eBayISAPI.dll?ViewItem&category=3268&item=5593555037&rd=1

http://cgi.ebay.com/ws/eBayISAPI.dll?ViewItem&category=3268&item=5591111562&rd=1

****... they have ton of these. :p

[Marsha]

omg those were expensive for a one time event lol. if its not free at this point its not for me lol just kiddin, i really didn want to spend over 20 on something i will probably sell in a garage sale afterwards.


but thank you sarah, for trying!

[fmil0625]

nawww im not sick im just tired, so much fun.IM fat remember it takes a lot out of fat girls to hike 20 miles and swin in an ocean and etc. i needed some rest.but i got a lot done today.


I figured out what i was going to put in our of town bags,
sun galsses,post cards, sun screeen, snacks, water, chocolates, schedules, menus, oranges, tissues, and a area map, one dispossable ***era

1board game for each room

and for parents rooms,
1 bottle of wine, and some cheese with a spreader, 2 wine glasses, cork screw, sausage, pretzles, mustard, ( if i can get some of this cheap i might do this in all the rooms, got to check the price)

must remember a thank you card for each room, 20 bags,tissue

im also going to put a little note in the bags that im going to make an emergency bag for my MIL room.(she will also bring this to the wedding) incase people forgot something, or needs hair pins, hair spray, tums, tampons, razor, combs, lint roller, saftey pins, eye liner, panty hose, black socks, floss, shout pads,clear nail polish, nail file, crackers,water, tissue, smelling salts


if anyone thinks of soemthing i forgot let me know!

Someone posted a great list (it was probably Rachel) and when I find it I'll let you know but two more things. Chalk (to cover any spots on your gown) and a sewing kit. At my son's wedding last Saturday the flower girl ripped out part of her hem before the ceremony and boy was I glad that I'd put one in.

I bought a basket at a garage sale that had a lid and handles; I had it packed to the brim! Oh, ibuprofin, toothbrushes and toothpaste, super heavyduty deoderant that won't stain, the little rubber band things that won't tangle hair, bandaids.

I also put together little bags for the bride and her bridemaids that included a white hand towel, tied with red ribbon and little hankies that had wedding bells on them. I bought the bags at Wal Mart, they were white with beads accross the top, a big silver heart and ribbon handles, the hankies I put in little cardboard favor boxes that had hearts on them, and tied them with red ribbon and attached little metal hearts that said "love" (Michael's) and the hankies were from Michaels also, 2 per package for about $4. It was hot so I also added visors to each bag, red for the bridesmaids and white for the bride. $1.69 at Wal Mart!!!

I put together a small "kit" for the guys too, deoderant, toothbrushes and toothpaste, breathmints and a lint brush. They each got a black visor and hankerchiefs. I found little favor boxes at Michael's that look like tux's and put the handerchiefs in those. (About $10 for a pkg. of 10 boxes)

Good luck!

[fmil0625]

well, I am into this web sight wayyy to much, but maybe if i write my own things i can learn how to visit once a day instead of all day at work

I moved to Florida, in 2002 with no job no nothing. After a year i evenchully ended up at Disney world. I swore up and down that i would only be there a year and then get out, i didnt want to work for a mouse. I was at my 3rd week into working there when i walked into the back office of my resort, and i swear to you time stopped. There was my "crush" with the most amazing guy. I kinda feel i had a out of body experience cuse i felt like i was watching myself walk across the floor, wile i looked at him. (he had also just started disney and was going through training, the day i saw him was his walk through day) 2 weeks went by untill i saw the mystery man again, and he was with a trainor, and i so badly wanted to talk to him but had to wait. At the end of the night, he was filing regrestration cards and I decided to say hello. We ended up getting into some kinda conversation about leather and lace and my new apartment.... (dont ask cuse i dont remember) I am really brave, so when he said well it's time for me to go, i replied by saying, how am i supposta ask you ona date if you dont give me your e mail address? He wrote it down and winked at me. (i felt computer was safer then phone) two more weeks went by and i didnt see him for what ever reason. then one night he poped up on messenger. We talked and he decided to help me move out of my house into my first apartment. From then on.. it was intense..

Yep, it was Rachael, go to her journal and print out post #52. It's a great list; start shopping now!

[SarahK]

ok i have serious issues right now. Ive been up all night. This is going to be long because i have so many thoughts that I might actually need professional help at this point.

OK last night wile reading some posts on here, I kinda was reading some of them to harry. I would ask what is his response, For so many of them he says, i feel uncomfortable when you ask me questions like that. When ever u go on those boards you get so involved and push for things. i kinda just sat there and didnt say anything. kinda let it all pass. I went to go shower but decided i wanted a bath. I was just thinking and thinking of nothing really just thinking about my time in PR and when i get home i want to do some new things to my house. and out of no where i felt something hit me, like a feeling, it was a fire cracker going off in me. something so loud in my head said you dont want to get married. I felt so relieved, almost happy. but then got really scared and started to cry. sobbing so hard i couldnt breathe. I went and layed down and was still weepy and kept only thinking of myself and what do I really want to do? Harry ***e to bed really really late, so this morning i got up early and went down to the beach and sat there, sun was almost up. I kept telling myself i have to tell him, Thinking i want to be on my own, get my own place let our relationship go down to dateing or friendship. I really dont want to be with anyone right now. Im beig shelfish, Im being mean to his feelings i know, maybe im scared. So when i ***e back he was awake and he tried to kiss me but i turned my head and gave half a hug. in my head his kisses made me ill. It isnt that i hate him, or want to end our relationship, but i want to live on my own. I feel so passionate about this, it is the one thing i know im 100% sure on. Im afarid that we wont stay friends. Im know he wont be mad if i say i want to call things off completly. I keep thinking about him and i feel he is more of a friend then a lover. I hate this i dont want that, i want all of him but its just not there. i keep thiking of all the things he does to annoy me. I hate when he says he dosent know how to answer questions with me, or feels uncomfortable with the things i ask. When we first dated i used to know exactily what i wanted, I said i wouldnt do a lot of things ive done. I feel like i compromised so much, i made all the compromising in the relationship, I feel like hes happy with that. But its not fair. We talk a lot and go off on rants wile talking that maybe my issues never get talked through. He always says hes comfortable with the way things are. Maybe i pushed for a wedding? He from day one always said he would never get married, and since im the one kept saying after a year you should know how u feel either its there or its not. i moved in with him after a year because he asked me to and i guess i assumed that since we moved in things would progress. But they really havent. A part of me says im o.k. with just dating and i really am. But then why is that stupid one year thing keep ringing in my head? i feel so sick i want to throw up. I see all these problems with us, why dosent he? This is exactily what happend with my first husband. i started feeling we were more friends then lovers. i dont want to be his best friend **** it i want somone i can look at and always feel love. maybe the love is gone for us? what do i do? i cant stop sobbing and blubbering i feel so alone. but yet i feel so empowered by wanting to be with myself. help somone i cant feel like this in front of his family today, i feel like running to the airport and getting away.

Oh honey, hang in there, its gonna be ok no matter what you decide to do. First of all, I suggest that you make NO hasty decisions. I know that you have been thinking a lot about this, but I think maybe you should wait to decide what to do until you're at least home. You'll be in a more comfortable place there and you'll be able to put things into better perspective.

Also, don' think that we don't all go through this. I know I do. Some days I feel like a maid, a friend, a slave, a piece of *****... basically anything besides the love of his life. Those are the days I find myself where you are. Wondering if I wouldn't be better off alone or with somone else who can make me feel loved every second of every day. But then I think about being without him and not having someone to NOT be just my lover, but be my best friend, someone to bounce my ideas on, someone to take my anger out on irrationally (who knows that I don't mean it and won't hold it against me), and someone who does make me feel special and loved, even if its not every second of every day. And I wonder, if I can ever find someone else who, even in the bad times, won't cut bait and bail on me. I don't think that marriages are ALL about love. I think they're about friendship that is beyond what I can have with others. I've found that passion can fade with time.. we're definaely not what we were when we first started out, but that kind of passion can be a little too exhausting. There has to be time for life. I'm just thankful that I have someone to share my life with... who can understand my ups and downs, who can help me fix them or celebrate them, who can be my soft place to fall. And can be my lover in-between those times. Thats what keeps me with this sometimes infuriating man that I have loved for 3+ years, Don't think he doesn't just **** me off by being in the room sometimes. LOL But everyone will do that to you after a substantial amount of time, no matter how much you love them. Thats just life.

I hope I helped even a little. I have to go to work now, but I'll be checking thi thread so respond if you want to. I'm here for you, sweets.

[reecey]

I've definitely had those feelings. I have that thing where I wonder what life would be like on my own. I wouldn't have so many bills, my house would always be clean and whatnot. But then I think about what the rest of my life would be like without him there - and I can honestly say, it wouldn't be one that I would want. I can't say this is the same thing you're going through - but I know I've had that feeling. What you really need to do is figure out if this is just jitters, if you're not ready to get married, but were just following that 1 year rule that sticks in your head, or if you need to call the whole relationship off. If you're not ready to get married and you were trying to follow that one year rule, then just tell harry you need to slow things down - postpone things until there isn't so much pressure and strife. You do need to talk to him about your feelings. There was a time in my relationship with my fiance where I just didn't even want to deal with him - I'd roll over and do the half hug thing intsead of kissing him or make excuses to not be intimate - but I found out that was more about me than him - It was stress from outside sources that I was reflecting on him. I've slowly learned how to not do that. He was very understanding about it all, too. I just think that you need a couple days by yourself so you can think about this - and write down the things you'd like to say to him - and then when you're calm and collected, bring these things up to him. Use what you've written, don't try to remember it all - because its just impossible to.. Whichever way things turn out - just know that we're here for ya!

[reecey]

I get so emotional everytime i see his face pop into my head. I know i dont want to sexually be with anyone else. but at the same time i dont want him either. But to think about him with somone makes me so raged. I know i love him, but i just feel like when i tell him i love him i sometimes just say it. I know that first passion fades, I just dont want to admitt outload i guess that we are great friends also. Being friends to me means nothing, i dont have many friends because they are people i never see. More people ill talk to on line or an occasional text message. But really its harry and i. Or its me and my sister. I just know ive never really lived on my own i dont even know if i can do it on my own. I dont ever want that regret, of not knowing. I want to tell him when we get home, but i feel so weak and just want to break down and cry right here and now. Ive been so short with him my temper picks at everything he does. last night i lectured him on how big a bite he took from his meal.(he was a slob and 1/2 of it ended up all over) it annoyed me so much i ended up not eating. he leaves the shower curtain open grrr i get so angry at that, and he puts my glass in the sink the second i stop drinking. he will do laundry and leave it bawled up in the basket untill i rewash it and iron it. i know im picking but it seems like im tired of saying something. No matter what i say how i say it it seems he just sits there with a blank reaction and says NOTHING!!!!! im venting now maybe it will help me get to the point. I dont think its fair though that i yell at him and then 5 min later i want to cuddle. i feel inbalanced. i feel like i want my cake and to eat it all up. All i know is i want time to live alone, but i dont think our relationship with with stand a break because he wont make an effort to visit me, and i am not compromising to go to his place all the time either. ive compromised enugh, im so shelfish!

You're not selfish - there's nothing wrong with wanting some time to yourself - you don't have to "break up" to have time to yourself. See what he thinks about you getting your own place for 6 months - let him know that he needs to do his part in keeping your relationship alive - it can't all be you. And girl - I know all about the shower curtain - I swear I'm going to invent one that closes automatically - either that or one that attacks the person that doesn't close it! :) You're not alone - we've all had these feelings. Mine were kindof reversed - I wanted HIM to try and live on his own - he's never really done that, but I have - and I'll tell ya - sometimes I miss it. But we do our own thing a lot and while, most of the time they are the same thing and we do them together, we keep our individual things going as well. Sure, we'll be married, but that doesn't mean we're not still individuals. I think you do need to talk to him. Tell him that you actually want him to talk back and tell you what he's feeling and thinking when you say these things. Let him know that its very important to you - see what happens...

[SarahK]

Reecey is right... I think calm, private heart-to-heart would be the best thing for you both right now. And just be honest and ask him to do the same. Tell him how much you love him and don;t want to hurt him, but that you have all these feelings that you don't know what to do with. If he is the good man he should be, he'll participate in this discussion and share his feelings too. You never know what may have been going on in his head too.
Jimmy and I had one of these talks a year or so ago. I was thinking that maybe we should live apart for a while and figure things out/possibly split up and after talking a long time about it and just getting to the bottom of these feelings and hearing things from him that I had no idea he was feeling, we actually worked it out and were better off afterward. I never thought that being honest about breaking up with him would bring us closer together and more unified, but it did. And I'm so glad because it also helped us communicate better which is something we tend to have problems with... mostly because I am a total hothead with a short temper. :rolleyes:

Anyway, talk to him when you guys get home, you never know what will happen... but whatever happens, you won't regret coming to the decision with him instead of in spite of him.

[Marsha]

im so scattered brained and confused and ahhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhh i need to scream!

[SarahK]

im so scattered brained and confused and ahhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhh i need to scream!

I understand... and I think you should scream. You might feel better once you do. Or even better, you can let loose on this stupid b1tch posting in my journal. She is cracking me up. Take all your anger out on her. Its fun.

[fmil0625]

im so scattered brained and confused and ahhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhh i need to scream!

I know that the thought of having an emotional conversation can be a little overwhelming; it is hard to talk about your feelings and cry at the same time. Also, men don't always "listen" very well without interrupting and trying to tell you how you should feel or that you're wrong.

First of all it sounds like you really need to get a lot of things out in the open and I am a great believer in writing things down; try making a list of all the things that he does that drive you insane. Then, turn the paper over and make a list of all the things that you love about him. Hopefully the last list will be longer. Write him a letter expressing your feelings and fears and leave it for him to read while you're taking a walk or sitting on the beach. Trust me, he'll be comming to you in no time like a puppy with his tail between his legs. Men seem to comprehend the letter better than the emotional confrontation and will most likely run for the nearest florist.

Take a little time for yourself, then a little time for just the two of you, no friends, no relatives and no wedding discussions. Remember what they say about kissing and making up.

(By the way, after being married 8 years, my husband still drives me insane with the dirty dishes in the sink, leaving cabinet doors open, laundry on the floor and just about every other bad habit guys have. But, I guess I still love him anyway!) :p

[shannabelle]

im so scattered brained and confused and ahhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhh i need to scream!
I don't mean to pry, but what have you decided? Are you okay? Things will get better. It's always hard to deal with different stresses at one time.

[reecey]

at lunch today, we decided just go with the flow. I told him that he does things that drive me insane and at some points(near pms time) it just annoyes me even more. He understood and said he would try to be more aware of the things he does and dosent do. He understood when i said i dont know if im ready to make huge changes in my life again, since i was married before and it didnt work. He understood i was scared. He was supportive of moving out on my own, and infact he said it would be a great idea. I guess i just got scared and things go so perfect and no relationship ever is that way, that i had to find fault. We do talk a lot everyday, meaningful stuff. Im am going to continue to find things i like for a wedding and keep planning but to me the best part is this message board. IM a peticulare kind of person, and i dont want to settle for something, so when i find all the things i want for my wedding then it will be no time line or anything. Also i wont settle to just be with somone, so after a few months of living on my own and i still want to be with him in marriage then i will know its meant to be. If i dont feel the same, he definitly wants to be friends and says he will make a committment to seeing me weekly and visiting me and calling me often. So things work out i just got scared, I get those days and those days i should jsut relax and do soemthing other then playing on here.

I'm so glad talking to him went well! Sounds like a pretty special guy! He's willing to let you figure everything out and be patient :) Sounds good to me :)

[Marsha]

I'm so glad talking to him went well! Sounds like a pretty special guy! He's willing to let you figure everything out and be patient :) Sounds good to me :)

he is special, he dosent think there is any hurry. I guess i got a bad case of cold feet lol. Glad I have all of you to help me through it

[SarahK]

he is special, he dosent think there is any hurry. I guess i got a bad case of cold feet lol. Glad I have all of you to help me through it

You got me babe!!!! :smooch: :D

[Marsha]

You got me babe!!!! :smooch: :D

kiss kiss :p ill be here for our date tomoorw night, ill even shower for it lol

[shannabelle]

I'm glad that he's letting you venture out on your own before ya'll get married. Everyone must know her/himself before they can know/love/give to another person. I hope things work out for the best. Good luck! Do what makes you happy(ier)!

[NYjerseygirl]

I love the cake stands, but where are the PR pics? :(

[SarahK]

kiss kiss :p ill be here for our date tomoorw night, ill even shower for it lol

Hey, I just saw this. LOL and YOU STOOD ME UP!!!!

LMAO

I forgive you.

[Marsha]

Hey, I just saw this. LOL and YOU STOOD ME UP!!!!

LMAO

I forgive you.

i havent taken in the film yet.. ill do tomoorw on my errands

[Marsha]

ok im a dork i made a photo bucket account uploaded pics here but ummm HOW do i i get to show u all those pics?

[SarahK]

ok im a dork i made a photo bucket account uploaded pics here but ummm HOW do i i get to show u all those pics?


ok, if they're uplaoded in photobucket, then on the page under the pic, there are 3 tags. Copy the bottom tag that starts with [ IMG ] and just paste it here. :)

[SarahK]

thanks my love i found somethings for u today also!
http://i9.photobucket.com/albums/a63/marcia621/flowers.jpg



ooooooooo! Beautiful. :) I just love hydrangea.

[Marsha]

http://i9.photobucket.com/albums/a63/marcia621/wed.jpg

http://i9.photobucket.com/albums/a63/marcia621/vases.jpg
i love these, its a different style then ive seen before

http://i9.photobucket.com/albums/a63/marcia621/tux.jpg
i really like this look for the guys, its sweet

[Marsha]

http://i9.photobucket.com/albums/a63/marcia621/table2.jpg

http://i9.photobucket.com/albums/a63/marcia621/table.jpg

http://i9.photobucket.com/albums/a63/marcia621/like.jpg

http://i9.photobucket.com/albums/a63/marcia621/hair.jpgi dont know how this would work because i jsut cut off all my **** hair but i do love it!

[SarahK]

http://i9.photobucket.com/albums/a63/marcia621/tux.jpg

Ohhh. I love these outfits for the gms for an outside wedding, that is too cute.

[reecey]

http://i9.photobucket.com/albums/a63/marcia621/table2.jpg

http://i9.photobucket.com/albums/a63/marcia621/table.jpg

http://i9.photobucket.com/albums/a63/marcia621/like.jpg

http://i9.photobucket.com/albums/a63/marcia621/hair.jpgi dont know how this would work because i jsut cut off all my **** hair but i do love it!

extensions darlin! they work wonders! I don't need them that's for damend sure - wanna borrow some of my hair! I have waaaay too much as it is! :P

[Marsha]

i love this bouquet
http://i9.photobucket.com/albums/a63/marcia621/lillies2.jpg

stole this from rachel i think if not, who cares i love it anyway
http://i9.photobucket.com/albums/a63/marcia621/broch.jpg

love this one to
http://i9.photobucket.com/albums/a63/marcia621/broach2.jpg

little bags i bought to try out and see if i like them on my "fake table settings"
http://i9.photobucket.com/albums/a63/marcia621/scan0001.jpg

i love these ice crystal looking things, just kinda expensive unless i find them on e bay someplace
http://i9.photobucket.com/albums/a63/marcia621/ice.jpg

[SarahK]

this morning i woke up to the most aweful smell... im babysitting my moms dogs, who havent eaten in 4 days. They decided to **** all over my house today. on my strawberry shortcake rugs in the bathroom and on my couch. got them outside and tried to get the baby dog out with me some how she got loose out of her harness and was running all over the prairie towards the main street. with the other dog in tow,and no bra on and 1/2 asleep im running calling her name, finally she stops. then neither one of them shiat or ****s for another 45 min. Got harry up to try and help me, put the rugs in the washer and he totally was ******ing wich he never has done before. and was *****ed cuse those rugs cost him 50 bucks a piece almost. Saw the carpets/ and couch was sooo mad. then i called my sister to vent at 6 am and she was mad cuse she has been sleeping 2 hours then i called my mom to find out what state she was in, shes crossing the fla line. i told her about the dogs and she laughed. Then i called harry on his cell to come help me for a few min so i could at least run insde and go pee and put another shirt on. he was mad cuse i kept calling him. when i come back from that i walk the dogs and step in some other dogs shait. my foot was covered and my flip flop decided to break all at once. i was 1/2 hour late for work making up some excuse and as im telling my boss why im late, i get stuck at a red light and realize that he is sitting in the car next to me so he knows i wasnt late because i-4 wasnt blocked both ways. (he even went as far as waiving at me)get to work and the printer wont print deals so im hand writing a 40 page deal and cant rememebr how to do it..grrrr hopefully it will all be over after lunch.

:( Sorry honey.

[NYjerseygirl]

Wow you are so lucky, I alwasys wanted to go to cirque but never had the opp. to :(

You must take pictures and report back how great it really is!!

[Marsha]

http://i9.photobucket.com/albums/a63/marcia621/floralytes_in_tower_single.jpg

look at what i found today! its my center pieces with martini glasses. what a great tie in we are only having martini's and signature drinks. im so excited! i think its great.

[SarahK]

http://i9.photobucket.com/albums/a63/marcia621/floralytes_in_tower_single.jpg

look at what i found today! its my center pieces with martini glasses. what a great tie in we are only having martini's and signature drinks. im so excited! i think its great.

That is way too cool.

[Marsha]

ok i really love the feather idea, and the eiffletower vases. HOWEVER they are sooo fricken expensive. and harry dosent have a problem letting me buy them but what the heck do i do with 400 ostrich feathers after im done? The cheapest feathers we found were 2 dollars a piece. we need at least 5 vases, at 20 feathers a piece plus the price of the eiffle tower is 150+ for 12, ive checked on e-bay and a few other places they are all the same size and shape color and price. what do i do??? for the amount i need its almost 1000.00 for table decorations

[SarahK]

ok i really love the feather idea, and the eiffletower vases. HOWEVER they are sooo fricken expensive. and harry dosent have a problem letting me buy them but what the heck do i do with 400 ostrich feathers after im done? The cheapest feathers we found were 2 dollars a piece. we need at least 5 vases, at 20 feathers a piece plus the price of the eiffle tower is 150+ for 12, ive checked on e-bay and a few other places they are all the same size and shape color and price. what do i do??? for the amount i need its almost 1000.00 for table decorations

yikes!!!!!!! i don't even know what to tell you. If its what you really want though, it will be worth it. Just think about it for a while.

[SarahK]

we are going to search out party stores and the day after halloween sales, because most of the time they have feathers for what ever reason at that time. If i can get them at a great deal then its all good! other wise, ill be making some kinda improvisions

not a bad thought. also, check out mardi gras type stores. They might have stuff on sale out of season.

[SarahK]

definitly. we are going to New orleans in november, maybe at the french market we can get a bunch who knows those people sell everything. Great idea Sarah baby :cool:

I'm always here to help, love. ;)

[belizeanhotty]

http://i9.photobucket.com/albums/a63/marcia621/floralytes_in_tower_single.jpg

look at what i found today! its my center pieces with martini glasses. what a great tie in we are only having martini's and signature drinks. im so excited! i think its great.

Hi Marcia, where did you find these?

[sandstar]

All these feather centerpieces make me want to change my whole wedding look, they are so fun :p

[SarahK]

http://i13.photobucket.com/albums/a259/shoogles/other%20receptions/white/whitewedding.jpg

Isn't it gorgeous????? I love it as is (looks like roses and carnations), but I can't help but to imagine it with the anemones too!!!! WOW!!!! Would that be spectacular or what???!!!

[SarahK]

favor bags
http://i13.photobucket.com/albums/a259/shoogles/other%20receptions/white/dove.jpg

feather cake
http://i13.photobucket.com/albums/a259/shoogles/other%20receptions/white/feathercake.jpg

hair comb
http://i13.photobucket.com/albums/a259/shoogles/other%20receptions/white/vienna.jpg

[Marsha]

favor bags
http://i13.photobucket.com/albums/a259/shoogles/other%20receptions/white/dove.jpg

feather cake
http://i13.photobucket.com/albums/a259/shoogles/other%20receptions/white/feathercake.jpg

hair comb
http://i13.photobucket.com/albums/a259/shoogles/other%20receptions/white/vienna.jpg
**** girl you are awesome! i love love love the flowers they are exactily whta i think of

[SarahK]

**** girl you are awesome! i love love love the flowers they are exactily whta i think of

I loved that bouquet too!!! Its so pretty! It almost converted me to feathers.. lol.

[Kelly1Mickey]

http://i13.photobucket.com/albums/a259/shoogles/other%20receptions/white/whitewedding.jpg

Isn't it gorgeous????? I love it as is (looks like roses and carnations), but I can't help but to imagine it with the anemones too!!!! WOW!!!! Would that be spectacular or what???!!!


I love that bouquet! You know, how many weddings have you been to that you remember the bouquet? That one would stick in your guests memory though.

[SarahK]

I love that bouquet! You know, how many weddings have you been to that you remember the bouquet? That one would stick in your guests memory though.

exactly... it is too cool.

[kyzmit]

Okay, so I'd actually never read your journal before, so I feel really bad... and I only skimmed it today, so I'll have to come back...

But I had 2 things to say:
Hope your knee feels better ( :( )
Guess we're lucky that starting your journal hasn't really curbed you from the site like you hoped it would ;)

[Marsha]

Okay, so I'd actually never read your journal before, so I feel really bad... and I only skimmed it today, so I'll have to come back...

But I had 2 things to say:
Hope your knee feels better ( :( )
Guess we're lucky that starting your journal hasn't really curbed you from the site like you hoped it would ;)
i update it all the time and delete stupid stuff i relize i hate after i post it. But tis cool, read along i hardely post here now

[SarahK]

i update it all the time and delete stupid stuff i relize i hate after i post it. But tis cool, read along i hardely post here now

LOL.. post b1otch!!!!!!!

[NYjerseygirl]

HEY!!! yes I have been missing in action but girl, you don't even know that half of it. We did an online invasion which was fun then I dissapeared to NYC without telling Chuck, lol, but he was very sweet about it. Then I was dealing with my pro pics! ugh, didn't have dvd reader for the dvd rom where all my images are stored, but all fixded :)

I heard a secret.........................is it true? :p ;)

[SarahK]

HEY!!! yes I have been missing in action but girl, you don't even know that half of it. We did an online invasion which was fun then I dissapeared to NYC without telling Chuck, lol, but he was very sweet about it. Then I was dealing with my pro pics! ugh, didn't have dvd reader for the dvd rom where all my images are stored, but all fixded :)

I heard a secret.........................is it true? :p ;)

ummm... rachel... you've been out of the loop too long.
http://forums.weddingsolutions.com/showthread.php?t=3567

[Kelly1Mickey]

Hey everyone, Marcia wanted everyone to know she is doing fine. She is resting comfortably and will be back in a few days. Just incase you didn't know, we misscarried sometime over the weekend and she is going to be o.k. ~Harry~(the fiancee)

I was wondering where she was.....please tell her she is in our thoughts! I am so sorry to hear the news. I wish I could do something to help you 2 through this.

[NYjerseygirl]

Hey everyone, Marcia wanted everyone to know she is doing fine. She is resting comfortably and will be back in a few days. Just incase you didn't know, we misscarried sometime over the weekend and she is going to be o.k. ~Harry~(the fiancee)
OMG I am so sorry. Please tell Marcia I hope she feels better soon, again I am so sorry :(

[SarahK]

Hey everyone, Marcia wanted everyone to know she is doing fine. She is resting comfortably and will be back in a few days. Just incase you didn't know, we misscarried sometime over the weekend and she is going to be o.k. ~Harry~(the fiancee)

Oh no! Harry, I am so sorry. Please give Marcia the biggest hug for me and tell her that I'm thinking about her.

[ca_dawson]

Hey everyone, Marcia wanted everyone to know she is doing fine. She is resting comfortably and will be back in a few days. Just incase you didn't know, we misscarried sometime over the weekend and she is going to be o.k. ~Harry~(the fiancee)
Oh no. I am so sorry. Sending best wishes yall's way! Hope she gets better soon. **Big Hugs**

[belizeanhotty]

Hey everyone, Marcia wanted everyone to know she is doing fine. She is resting comfortably and will be back in a few days. Just incase you didn't know, we misscarried sometime over the weekend and she is going to be o.k. ~Harry~(the fiancee)


OMG!! I'm SOOOOO SORRY Marcia and Harry. I've been there and know what it's like to go through something as painful as that. All the emotions and questions. I cried when I read this. I'm SORRY this happened to you guys. Please tell her to take care and get lots of rest. :(

[reecey]

Harry and Marcia -

You're in our thoughts! Take care of yourselves and eachother!

[SOM Z28]

Hey everyone, Marcia wanted everyone to know she is doing fine. She is resting comfortably and will be back in a few days. Just incase you didn't know, we misscarried sometime over the weekend and she is going to be o.k. ~Harry~(the fiancee)
Sorry to hear this. I hope she will be feeling better soon!

[NYjerseygirl]

HEy everyone! im missing each and everyone of you guys!!! i swear i am. I am finally back at work today feeling min. discomfort but here only 1/2 a day. Thank you everyone for caring about Harry and I and our situation. We are thankful I have friends as great as all of you.
I am so glad to catch you online. I was checking back wondering when you would come back.
I am glad to hear you are back at work, it means you are doing better and will continue to get better.

I am so sorry.

[reecey]

HEy everyone! im missing each and everyone of you guys!!! i swear i am. I am finally back at work today feeling min. discomfort but here only 1/2 a day. Thank you everyone for caring about Harry and I and our situation. We are thankful I have friends as great as all of you.


glad to see you back! Just take it easy and relax...I know - easier said than done most of the time! :)

[kyzmit]

HEy everyone! im missing each and everyone of you guys!!! i swear i am. I am finally back at work today feeling min. discomfort but here only 1/2 a day. Thank you everyone for caring about Harry and I and our situation. We are thankful I have friends as great as all of you.

OMG... I'm so sorry :( , but I'm glad your feeling a better...

Get rest, get healthy, and stay strong.

[SarahK]

I made my first wedding purchase today!!!! i won 2 E BAY Auctions!!!

1 got 428 red rose peddles!!! whooo hooooooo for 7.50(thats with s/h) i plan on getting some more but i was out bidded on white and ivory, so untill i know more about my wedding i wont purchase, but i am going to bid on some hair jewelry and maybe some other stuff.

wooohoo!!! Congrats!!!!!!!!!!! I loved it when I won my first purchase.

[belizeanhotty]

I made my first wedding purchase today!!!! i won 2 E BAY Auctions!!!

1 got 428 red rose peddles!!! whooo hooooooo for 7.50(thats with s/h) i plan on getting some more but i was out bidded on white and ivory, so untill i know more about my wedding i wont purchase, but i am going to bid on some hair jewelry and maybe some other stuff.


Hi Marcia, and welcome back. Glad to see you are doing better. I went out today and saw some earrings that looked like the eifel tower. I'll take some pics of them when I go out again (if I remember my *** this time) and then I'll show them to you. I really liked them and thought of you. So if you like them when I show them to you I'll mail them for you. I know this sucks that I don't have them to show right now but I'll do my best to get them tom or over then weekend. By the way are you still doing your eifel tower theme?

[ca_dawson]

http://weddingneeds.cceasy.com/order/We_ViewEns.cfm?sItemCode=WedEns3812&sCatalogCode=WedEnsCC&iStartRow=97&strcontinue=yes&strsearch=yes&format=WedEnsCCa

what do u all think of these?
I looked at those before! I think they are really cool! (But a little pricey for me!)

[lilone]

http://weddingneeds.cceasy.com/order/We_ViewEns.cfm?sItemCode=WedEns3812&sCatalogCode=WedEnsCC&iStartRow=97&strcontinue=yes&strsearch=yes&format=WedEnsCCa

what do u all think of these?
Those are awesome. But they're really expensive. :eek:

[Marsha]

Those are awesome. But they're really expensive. :eek:
yeah but im thinking of doing them myself. I really kinda like them. HMMMMM project for the weekend(maybe)

[lilone]

ok what a joke i NEVER noticed the price, wasnt thining about it. I just made the biggest schreeeking noise my boss called and asked if he should call 911 OMG 350.00 and u have to put them together.. wtf are they made from? omg.. I WILL definitly be making them MYSELF!! lol it has got to be cheaper!
Yeah, and the 350.00 is only for 25 of them. :eek:

[lilone]

ok i figured it all out lol.. he wont set a date but he loves to look at everything, and does pick things with me. SO im just going to go ahead planning, and now thati found awesome invites, im going to say, well i would print them but we need a place and time, definitly a date! maybe now he will committ to a date, or ill have him committed!
Does he have an idea of where he wants to have the reception? Because you could always tell him that you guys need to set a date because a lot of places book up really fast so you need to reserve it now but you need to know when to reserve it for.

[lilone]

well honestly i think ive decided to have it in our back yard. We have everything i want, and my house is big enughf. we dont have very many people, but if we dont i plan on usuing this old hotel, who i know the owners verry well. and i can work around there scheduale.
Hmmm...I guess that idea won't work to get him to set a date then. If you are planning on having a lot of out of town guests you could always tell him that you need to be able to send save the dates so that they can save for travel and whatever else.

[Marsha]

IDEAS:

Lanterns

Take some used jam jars and clean thoroughly, inside and out. Fill to halfway with very small pebbles. Using some fine wire wrap around the neck of the jar a few times and make a handle for hanging handle. Place a tea light candle in each jar.

[SarahK]

we talked about where it would take place, and threw a few ideas out. talked about time of year still in the spring. then i said well when??? and thats where the conversation ended. Seriously, he rolled out of bed and said he had to make last minute calls. I didnt see him on the weekend, and he knows i got the stuff to make the cards, but im not sure why hes afarid. GRRRRRRRRR MEN!!!!

Hmmm... what the he11 is going on with him? I thought you guys had orginally planned for feb? Is it since the miscarriage that you can't get him to decide or was it before?

BTW: the black and red will be cute... you'd better make that bouquet I posted with the feathers though. I don't care what color you decide, its just too pretty to ignore. :D

[lilone]

we talked about where it would take place, and threw a few ideas out. talked about time of year still in the spring. then i said well when??? and thats where the conversation ended. Seriously, he rolled out of bed and said he had to make last minute calls. I didnt see him on the weekend, and he knows i got the stuff to make the cards, but im not sure why hes afarid. GRRRRRRRRR MEN!!!!
Is it possible that since you had your bout of second thoughts while you guys were in PR he's been thinking the same thing and doesn't want to set a date in stone in case he decides he wants to wait, or maybe he's afraid that you'll start having second thoughts again and he'll be all excited because he knows exactly when it's going to be and something will happen? I'm not trying to make you feel bad at all, I'm just trying to help figure out why he won't set a date.

[SarahK]

Is it possible that since you had your bout of second thoughts while you guys were in PR he's been thinking the same thing and doesn't want to set a date in stone in case he decides he wants to wait, or maybe he's afraid that you'll start having second thoughts again and he'll be all excited because he knows exactly when it's going to be and something will happen? I'm not trying to make you feel bad at all, I'm just trying to help figure out why he won't set a date.
oooh... good thought. I forgot about that.

[lilone]

oooh... good thought. I forgot about that.
I just figured that as much as guys seem to forget about the important things an episode like this is something he's not likely to forget easily. I broke up with Lucas two years ago and he still gets skiddish about it sometimes. So I guess my thought was just if he's still reeling from that then he's not going to want to set a definite date because he may be afraid that something else will happen.

[Kelly1Mickey]

Yeah, Marcia! I know that must be a relief to have decided on your location. And it sounds like Harry is finally coming around on setting a date!

[SarahK]

How exciting!!!! Yippee!!!!!!!!!! :D

[belizeanhotty]

Hi Marcia, how are your wedding plans coming along? Any new find or great ideas?

[ca_dawson]

I'm so sorry things are like this right now. No matter what happens, do go anywhere! We love you too much! Things always happen for a reason. Everything will be okay in the end. We love you and are here for you!

[lilone]

thanks for asking! but they arent comming along. I honeslty believe that Haryy and I are over. When we talked further into booking Seasons 52 he decided it wasnt the place he wanted, and we havent talked since. Over the last few weeks, I feel him pulling away and staying on the boat more and Not even calling to let me know whats going on. He hasnt even picked up my calls most of the time. I've decided not to be a psychio and stalk him or anything, just to let him go. He ***e to the apt a few nights ago, and he sat on the computer and went to bed really early. We barley talked. But for what ever reason im o.k. with all this, i dont feel like ive lost anything. Maybe we both knew it. Im still kinda here, on the sight because i love all of you, and love to see what everyone has picked. Im on work assignment this week in Panama, but will be back mid next week.
We're here for you sweetie. If you need anything just let us know. Have fun in Panama and even if you aren't planning your own wedding anymore you have been such a great help to all of us planning ours and you can't leave us, we would miss you way too much. We love you!

[SarahK]

Marcia... I'm sorry. I talked to harry a few minutes the other night on yahoo when I was looking for you. He seemed kind of strange. I'm here for you honey. Email me or pm me when you get a chance.

[sarahopper]

I am new to this forum and I was reading your journal and wow. I am really sorry for everything I hope that everything works out for the best! It is amazing how much support and help people around this forum gives. That's awesome! I was wondering; when I was reading your journal I noticed a picture that you posted of a centerpiece and I absolutely love it, it would go perfect with my vision of what I have. It was a while back when you posted it but hopefully you will remember. It was posted on 7-7-05, #133 posting. It is some kind of centerpiece with a vase and flowers inside the vase with candles between them. If you do remember where you found these that would be awesome if you could let me know so I may check them out. Thanks! Again, I hope everything works out for you. ;)

[belizeanhotty]

thanks for asking! but they arent comming along. I honeslty believe that Haryy and I are over. When we talked further into booking Seasons 52 he decided it wasnt the place he wanted, and we havent talked since. Over the last few weeks, I feel him pulling away and staying on the boat more and Not even calling to let me know whats going on. He hasnt even picked up my calls most of the time. I've decided not to be a psychio and stalk him or anything, just to let him go. He ***e to the apt a few nights ago, and he sat on the computer and went to bed really early. We barley talked. But for what ever reason im o.k. with all this, i dont feel like ive lost anything. Maybe we both knew it. Im still kinda here, on the sight because i love all of you, and love to see what everyone has picked. Im on work assignment this week in Panama, but will be back mid next week.

I'm very sorry, Marcia. :( I thought that the reason we didn't hear from you was because you were busy planning. I never expected to hear that. I know how heartbroken you must be over everything. I'm still glad that you can be here with us. That sucks that he's acting that way towards you. IS HE CRAZY!!!!I just don't know what to say... wish I was there to give you a hug. We love you and will support you whenever you need to talk. Hugs!!!

[CKNEET]

MARCIA WE ALL LOVE YOU!!!!!!

[Justplainme]

I am so sorry to hear that! :( We are all here for you! We are love you very much! Just remember that everything happens for a reason and if things don't work out for the two of you, that just means that there is someone better out there for you. You may have to kiss alot of ugly toads before one turns into your prince. I am glad that you are still here with us! You are a great and caring person.

Take care and may God bless you!

**** HUGS ****

[reecey]

Marcia honey - I wish I could give you a big hug!

[shannabelle]

Marsha, I don't mean to pry into a very private situation, but I can't help but feel like I know you. I'm sorry this happend to you. I got some very sound adivce one day, it made me feel so much better--I know it hurts now, but it won't hurt forever. It's true. And it's all in God's plan. He has something else instore for you, and that can only be better or maybe y'all are meant to be and this was necessary to carry out y'all's plan. Whatever reason you must know that as long as you have trust and faith in Him, nothing can ever go wrong, just a little different than what you had planned. Take care and know you're in my prayers.

[Kelly1Mickey]

I know things are sort of up in the air right now. But I couldn't wait to share these with you!
http://i23.photobucket.com/albums/b368/Kelly1Mickey/formarcia.jpg

They are placecard holders! I thought I wrote down the web site, but I can't find it now. When I do, I will post it for you!

[ca_dawson]

Marcia! Glad to see you! We miss you! Come back!

[CKNEET]

Marcia, you have no idea how wonderful it is to have you back . . . .

[lyndsaynicole]

Yay Marcia is back!!!! We missed you and I hope all is well with you darlin! :D

[Kelly1Mickey]

Hey Marcia! So, you will be around more...I hope?

[reecey]

we love you marcia! :)
take care sweetie! Its good to see you around again! This place isn't the same without you :)

[Kelly1Mickey]

ok, marcia, I know you haven't been around much, but I found something I have to share with you.

Didn't you say you were thinking about using some feathers in your decor, etc.?

Here are some invites I found:

http://i23.photobucket.com/albums/b368/Kelly1Mickey/feather.jpg


I think they were at www.invitationconsultants.com

[SarahK]

ok, marcia, I know you haven't been around much, but I found something I have to share with you.

Didn't you say you were thinking about using some feathers in your decor, etc.?

Here are some invites I found:

http://i23.photobucket.com/albums/b368/Kelly1Mickey/feather.jpg


I think they were at www.invitationconsultants.com

cute!

[Kelly1Mickey]

cute!

I thought it was cute too. But when I showed it to James, he thought it was scary! LOL SO I guess we won't be using it! :D

[NYjerseygirl]

Ok, I haven't been here in ages but howcome your journal is on page 3 ???? :( :confused:

[NYjerseygirl]

Are you still having a celebration :(

[Vixen]

Ok, I haven't been here in ages but howcome your journal is on page 3 ???? :( :confused:

i think she deleated some of them. :( but i see page 23 if it makes you feel better.

[SarahK]

Rachel... I think she and Harry are having serious probs. She hasn't been here in a while. I miss her.

[Vixen]

Are you still having a celebration :(

btw glad to see you ***e back to see us. I really liked your pictures.

[NYjerseygirl]

Thanks vixey! :)

i'm off to check page 23.

[NYjerseygirl]

Marcia i'm so sorry, I didn't know and I haven't been around in ages. I hope everything works itself out. :(

[michellem775aacb]

Hi could you help me out? Did you have a Paris Theme wedding? How did you go about putting that together? I can't find anything

Thanks