Having to Change the DATE!!!

[sammysangel04]

My wedding date was set for October 18, 2008, but life has caught up with me and I have run in to some problems. And I'm not sure that is should change the date, to make everyones life easer? I'm waiting to find out if I am pregnate with our second child (would be due in September), we have to move for my b/f job in July and we have to get adoption papers for me to adopt his two kids, then to top it off we have to go through the catholic church process to get married. I am thinking about moving the Date to December 14, 2008.... HELP!!! WHAT DO I DO?

[gurlie49eaba]

If you want more of a wintery wedding then go for it. Move it to December but if you still want it kindof warm(outoor wedding or reception?) I would either leave it where it is, which i understand will be kindof hard, or wait until maybe some where like Febuary 09 to get married. It would give you more time to plan, get settled after the move and possinly new addition, plus give you time to get the adoption finalized or close to it. I think what your doing, by adopting his children, is wonderful especially since you already have one and possibly one on the way. There are a lot of women out there who would have said forget it. If you can handle 4 children you can handle ANYTHING!
Hope my advice helps and if not im sorry. If I can be of any other help or you just wanna talk email me sometime. gurlie49@hotmail.com