Budget

[CGRay3879]

Hey all!!!

I recentley got engaed and i am looking around at different wedding ideas even though we are planning on waiting until i finish grad school (May 2006) to get married. We don't want anything overblown for our wedding, but i want it to be nice. We will have the wedding at the church i grew up in which should be no cost, my brother will officiant and we will have a simple reception at the church with a buffett style meal or at least fingerfoods. the thing i am having questions about is the budget for the other things. I have read numerous books about what percentage each part of the wedding should cost--------but still that doesnt help me--------if anyone is having just a simple church wedding with a church reception please respond and let me know what to expect to pay for the other parts of the wedding---------

Happy Planning to everyone!!!

Chrissy

[megsdaniel]

I believe the most beautiful wedding is a simple one. If you set up 3-5 candles on either side of the background (on a table covered with black cloth) will enhance the ceremony. I would hire a photographer for the pictures and I would ask a family member to be the videographer. Usually wedding receptions will have assorted fruits, crackers and cheese, nuts, mints, and other finger foods with punch for a drink. You also will need invitations, wedding cake, and maybe a ribbon tied to the pews.

If you would like to know more about planning your wedding, please, just email me and I will have more time to respond to your message. You can ask me specific questions. Thank you! God bless!

Many blessings,
~Megs

[hinman2b]

I am getting married July 2, and my wedding (although large because of his family) will be simple with the ceremony and reception at the church, and fingerfood/dessert reception. We have the church for free, his dad is the officiant, and as for the rest...my total bill will be about 2500.
$1000 for the pictures (at my mother's request) I could have gotten them for 899.

I only paid $100 for my dress, but my friend just paid almost $300, which is very reasonable. Look at JCPenneys, or Ebay even. I got mine on sale (look for David's Bridal $99 sale, and other stores will most likely have the same deal at the same time, so go shopping then-usually change of season)

As far as percentage goes, don't worry about it. I just created an excel spreadsheet, tried to think of everything I would want (you can find lists all over the internet) and played with the numbers.

Have fun!
Luci

[reecey]

Hey all!!!

I recentley got engaed and i am looking around at different wedding ideas even though we are planning on waiting until i finish grad school (May 2006) to get married. We don't want anything overblown for our wedding, but i want it to be nice. We will have the wedding at the church i grew up in which should be no cost, my brother will officiant and we will have a simple reception at the church with a buffett style meal or at least fingerfoods. the thing i am having questions about is the budget for the other things. I have read numerous books about what percentage each part of the wedding should cost--------but still that doesnt help me--------if anyone is having just a simple church wedding with a church reception please respond and let me know what to expect to pay for the other parts of the wedding---------

Happy Planning to everyone!!!

Chrissy


The percentages really aren't very helpful - I know I looked at them compared to what I want to do and they aren't even close. Granted, you will spend a lot of money on a "full blown" reception but its not necessarily what the guidelines say. My mother commented on my percentages and I had to ask "oh crap! does that mean the marriage isn't valid? Are we going to be living in sin for spending over 40% on the reception??? oh my! am I going to jail?!?!?" hehe :) Yes, that's my sense of humour :)

The best way that I have found is find a dollar amount that you will need to stick to. Work backwards from there. Write down your most important must haves. If its the perfect exact dress no matter what the cost, then put that as number one - you might luck out and find it relatively inexpensive - I know I did. Then decide what you want the wedding to include. How many attendants, how many guests, what kind of reception. Next is where the fun comes in - bargain shopping for your food and decorations - if you're going to be doing finger food - buffet style, you can prepare it on your own (obviously with the help of family) and just have it ready the day before and waiting to be set out. (ask a good family friend to help with this) Check with the deli at the grocery stores to see what they can do - they usually can make pre-made food trays at pretty good prices - I know sams club does as well. The sooner you have your plan done, the more money you'll save by watching for sales.

[cl_peterson]

Basically you can spend as much or as little as you want on everything. It's up to you, if you want to be the super bargain bride, or if you want to just come in under average, or if you want what you want and you're willing to spend whatever you need to get it. For example, photography, I have heard of people spending as little as, well, near to nothing, and as much as $10,000. It is just up to you what you want.

[nle5]

It really depends on what you want to spend on the wedding and reception. Most people try to go by a certain percentage for everything but in today's world with brides finding ways to cut the budget you can't really go by the percentages. For example, if I went with a percentage for the reception part, which is normally 40%, I would be spending around $4,000. My reception will be about 1/2 of that amount. So you need to decide what you feel is the most important part of the wedding and reception. Put the highest amount of money in that area. If it's the reception then that's ok. When you finally have your priorities set for the wedding start allocating how much money you want to spend on each item.

[patricia_mg]

Hey all!!!

I recentley got engaed and i am looking around at different wedding ideas even though we are planning on waiting until i finish grad school (May 2006) to get married. We don't want anything overblown for our wedding, but i want it to be nice. We will have the wedding at the church i grew up in which should be no cost, my brother will officiant and we will have a simple reception at the church with a buffett style meal or at least fingerfoods. the thing i am having questions about is the budget for the other things. I have read numerous books about what percentage each part of the wedding should cost--------but still that doesnt help me--------if anyone is having just a simple church wedding with a church reception please respond and let me know what to expect to pay for the other parts of the wedding---------

Happy Planning to everyone!!!

Chrissy
You will find that all the investment on the groom and brides' image for a beautiful picture album is the most efficient expense you will make considering that that is what you will show the most during your married life.

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[reecey]

You will find that all the investment on the groom and brides' image for a beautiful picture album is the most efficient expense you will make considering that that is what you will show the most during your married life.

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A little more creative than the rest of the spammers, but still SPAM. Ya know, I make it a point, and so do others to specifically not patronize these "vendors" - I hope others will too - otherwise we're just going to be overrun with spammy crap like this

[esp1087]

A little more creative than the rest of the spammers, but still SPAM. Ya know, I make it a point, and so do others to specifically not patronize these "vendors" - I hope others will too - otherwise we're just going to be overrun with spammy crap like this
I agree it had NOTHING to do with the post... ugh I know that I wouldn't do this... If someone is looking for that advice, that is one thing. BUT TO POST IT FOUR TIMES IS ANNOYING!!!

[patricia_mg]

A little more creative than the rest of the spammers, but still SPAM. Ya know, I make it a point, and so do others to specifically not patronize these "vendors" - I hope others will too - otherwise we're just going to be overrun with spammy crap like this

Actually telling everyone about my good experience with www.pearlhairpins.com was not intended to be spam... I just copied and pasted some stuff off the website but I can see how it could have sounded fishy. It's too bad too... because now it means I just gave them bad publicity!! I hope they don't notice!!!! Ugh!

[reecey]

Actually telling everyone about my good experience with www.pearlhairpins.com was not intended to be spam... I just copied and pasted some stuff off the website but I can see how it could have sounded fishy. It's too bad too... because now it means I just gave them bad publicity!! I hope they don't notice!!!! Ugh!


Posting the same message in several forums, especially ones that have nothing to do with what you're posting is really unproductive to the rest of the readers here and does get annoying. We get bombarded with posts from people who aren't really brides or involved in wedding preparations at all every single day. The best way to give some good publicity to a business is to post your experience with them, their website/location in a forum that has a connection to their product. From what I can see, we all read all of the forums on here and post in them regularly. I'm afraid that if we're continuously bombarded with the same message in every forum, people will no longer continue to read them and they will then not find what they may be looking for here - myself included. Just consider how many times you would like to read a message I guess - How many times have you opened your email and gotten offers for viagra in one day - once may be funny but when you get 4 or 6 or 10 of them, you get a bit miffed.
Thanks for clarifying that you're not a "spammer" - I will check their site.

[SusanM18]

Reecey - Thanks for saying that on behalf of all of us :p

I not quite that tactful, so mine would have been harsh, even if that was not the intent!
Thanks

[Bride2BeWells]

I know how you feel believe me. I am getting married in 2 weeks. The last thing I wanted to do was have a huge expensive wedding. One thing I have learned so far, make sure you do RSVP cards and make sure that you put a limit on guest if you dont want a big wedding. We started out small and we ended up sending out 157 inventations. But as they always say dont freak out on that amount. Half probably wont show up. Which is kinda true. We havent received that many RSVP's coming but the ones that are have tons of people they are bringing. That is why I would limit guest. If anyone offers to help take them up on the offer. Every little bit helps. Also get the church envoled. I am having mine at my church and they have done so much for me and have paid for alot of stuff too. Church members do alot for another. Pictures you dont really have to hire a photographer, if you have a friend that you trust or family member that is good with a camera that is all you need and you can get them enlarged if you want. I have 2 people that are doing my pictures. I lucked out with video because my fiance is the Director for the news station here they offered to film it and put it all together since we are having 3 different cameras to get all the angles. I really would like to talk to you more about ideas for weddings and maybe i can send you pics of what we have and see if that will help you out any.

Feel free to email me at
Kraziebear28@sbcglobal.net

Kina
Hey all!!!

I recentley got engaed and i am looking around at different wedding ideas even though we are planning on waiting until i finish grad school (May 2006) to get married. We don't want anything overblown for our wedding, but i want it to be nice. We will have the wedding at the church i grew up in which should be no cost, my brother will officiant and we will have a simple reception at the church with a buffett style meal or at least fingerfoods. the thing i am having questions about is the budget for the other things. I have read numerous books about what percentage each part of the wedding should cost--------but still that doesnt help me--------if anyone is having just a simple church wedding with a church reception please respond and let me know what to expect to pay for the other parts of the wedding---------

Happy Planning to everyone!!!

Chrissy