should my friends help or just family?!?!?!?!

[sassycassy0215]

my husband to be is leaving for iraq in nov. and our date is set for the 3rd of july which means that i will be doing a lot of the planning on my own, and i really want to do a lot of the projects myself like the center pieces and the flowers and so on

a good friend of mine was going to get married and things got called off so she really wants to help me with my up coming wedding but the problem is that my husband to be kenneth really wants me to involve his mom, at the same time i want to include my mom,

how can i create a happy medium between all the help that is coming my way, i need all the help i can get but i dont want to leave anyone close to me out! seeing how kenneth cant be here i feel like i need to involve his mom but how do i do this with out hurting my mom and my friends feeling, help!?!?!?!? :confused:

[loveatfirstphp]

I think it is great that everyone is willing to help you plan your wedding. I would try to include everyone. This would be a great opportunity for you fiance's mom to get more aquainted with your mom and yourself. If you feel that their ideas and opinions might clash on certain things, then have them work on seperate parts of your wedding. Maybe because your finace can'tbe with you he would like his mom to fill in for him, that way he doesn't feel so bad about leaving you alone with the planning. I wish you luck! :)